After my LT lover ate me out and made love to me, I told my husband I wanted him to go down on me more often. So, he went down on me. Afterward my husband told me, "I may not be as good as Ray is, but I'll get there." I responded saying, "No, honey. You won't. He has a natural talent like Craig and Todd do." My husband wants to be as good, sexually, as my lovers are but, it's never going to happen. I hear people say that if a man has a small penis that he should hone his oral talents. Well, my husband is 3.75" when he is totally erect. He can never satisfy me the way other men do, with his penis. It's just never going to happen. Orally, my husband is okay at best. As he was trying to orally please me, all I could think about was Ray and Craig and Todd. I appreciate my husband trying, but it wasn't that great. I know that many husbands want to be like other men are, but sometimes you have to accept that other men are just better.