So I love BBC porn and how much better some of these guys fuck than me, and I've kind of gotten into becoming a premature ejaculator hehe. I love long edging sessions but sometimes I'll make myself cum to a BBC or BBC porn in like 45 seconds jerking. Is there a good way to increase sensitivity? I keep going soft in the GF and not finishing so busting fast could help that too! Until it gets to bad and I guess that's when I finally get cucked haha
how to become more premature?
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If you cum within 45 seconds watching "BBC" porn but go soft when you're inside your GF then perhaps you are more turned on by dick than pussy. i don't mean it in a judgemental way BTW. Just think of it.
i noticed you're new to this site, so welcome and have a good time!
i noticed you're new to this site, so welcome and have a good time!
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Or maybe you just know your place is not inside white pussy? And that's why you go soft. You feel undeserving of that?
Your honesty is appreciated. For your business visit a doctor. (urologist or psychotherapist)
Hey! Thanks for the welcome
and yeah I think I am, just tough to manage with a GF haha. Seems like a lot of people here have worked it out though
It sounds like it's time to let your gf know if you already haven't, you love the thought of BBC. Idk if you fantasize about it with her or with you, taking in the information you gave us, but going soft in a woman after focusing on the dick that's pounding a woman in porn, no matter what color the rod is, that's to me a tell. Be honest with her, no matter the outcome at least you'll be truthful.
I mean it depends on the day who I'm imagining is taking the dick haha. I still like seeing like girls with nice tits, just really turned on by a nice big dick and have never tried one or gotten to see one in action in person
Yeah you're all probably right, just no clue how to go about that or what I can handle haha, should try to ease inThis is good advice. I did this a few years ago.
Be honest with yourself first. Then express this to the gf. Like I said before whatever happens(And I didn't say the outcome would be good for the record), will happen. But one thing holding you back is telling her to the extent your telling us. SHE needs to know this, it's her body and you might be surprised.... She maybe down to ge taken as eager as you are to watch.
...or participate.(...) She maybe down to ge taken as eager as you are to watch.
@42069Nice: iDK how long the two of you 've been together but if it is a good and close relationship it may be worth working on it. In any case, if you love your girlfriend you won't do anything that will harm her or let her be unhappy, unsatisfied or frustrated. Even if that means that you will have to break up with her.
(Even though i don't say that that will be the necessary consequence.)What's her age? As men we have a responsibility for our women. Trying to extend a relationship while you already know it is not meant to last is a very bad thing to do and selfish. Most people imagine themselves with a loving partner on their side, and, more importantly, with chi!dren one day. A woman's time to achieve that is more limited than a man's because of biological reasons. Stealing important life-time from her and perhaps making impossible that she will have the chance of leading the life she desires is very bad actually.
But as i said, it doesn't necessarily mean the two of you will have to split up. i know of couples who manage to have a healthy relationship and a good life together, even though the husband or boyfriend leans more toward men sexually. But, like @DarkPrince88 and others have said: Honesty is the key! And finding an arrangement that works for both of you. Good luck!
Perhaps you would tell the OP about your own experinces and what has worked for you? That might be helpful information.This is good advice. I did this a few years ago.
Thank you.I mean everything is pretty good except we've only fucked each other and I think we're trash at sex haha. Gonna try improving that a little then maybe trying to introduce some ideas...or participate.
@42069Nice: iDK how long the two of you 've been together but if it is a good and close relationship it may be worth working on it. In any case, if you love your girlfriend you won't do anything that will harm her or let her be unhappy, unsatisfied or frustrated. Even if that means that you will have to break up with her.
What's her age? As men we have a responsibility for our women. Trying to extend a relationship while you already know it is not meant to last is a very bad thing to do and selfish. Most people imagine themselves with a loving partner on their side, and, more importantly, with chi!dren one day. A woman's time to achieve that is more limited than a man's because of biological reasons. Stealing important life-time from her and perhaps making impossible that she will have the chance of leading the life she desires is very bad actually.
But as i said, it doesn't necessarily mean the two of you will have to split up. i know of couples who manage to have a healthy relationship and a good life together, even though the husband or boyfriend leans more toward men sexually. But, like @DarkPrince88 and others have said: Honesty is the key! And finding an arrangement that works for both of you. Good luck!
Honesty, there are two real ways to speed up yourself in bed. One is to not get sex or abstain from cumming for a short time and build up some tension. The second is to practice kegals. Kegals done without doing reverse kegals only tightens your pelvic floor and makes you a time bomb waiting to go off. Do them especially when you are having sex or jerking off. The more you do them the tighter your pelvic floor will become over time. You will eventually start to do them ******* when jerking off or having sex and you will start to spill you seed faster than you think is possible.
Niceeee I'll have to start trying that!! Thanks!
Take viagra when you are with the GF.
Also 45 seconds is what we should all be aiming for.
Think how much more efficient and productive we would bee if we all done it in 45 instead of spending all our time on Blacktowhite jerking at our cockys for hours on end.
Legit I've thought about how much time I save hahah. Some days I'll edge for like 3 hours and others I'll make myself cum in 45 second and the fast days are way better for me. Cum just as hard and I have another 3 hours to use. And maybe I should get Viagra haha didn't think my dick would suck this much at age 28
Yes brother, we do jerk off too much.
I guess if I didn't jerk off so much I wouldn't be into this though haha can't complain
So it's become an all fantasy thread. i see. 
i wish you well.
i see. i wish you well. Similar threads
