Then i guess you have your own ideas already. It seems you know what you're doing.
Please share those "micro cheats" with the rest of us. You know what they say, sharing is caring.
Thanks alot.
The most important question ImO is what is your kind of play? What turns you on (the most)? - i'm asking because different couples like different things, and sometimes are even opposed to each other when it comes to what gets them off.
An example: Some couples have developed a more or less sophisticated idea of what they are looking for in a potential play partner and may prefer registering on to a fetish or swinger's lifestyle website and search for a potential "third" based on their criteria. Others who are less interested in the online dating scene may prefer the one-on-one (or two-on-one
) game of seduction in real life.
Especially when the female part of the couple has an exhibitionist tendency and her husband or boyfriend a voyeuristic nature - which many if not most of the (wannabe) wifesharing men share, this can be a fun way to get into the lifestyle or to find a play partner...
Prepare for a night out and dress the wife/GF in a sexy outfit that leaves no doubt she will turn heads. Go to a place where casual contact with strangers is not a taboo. A dance club, disco, or a bar with open-mided customers will do. Look for guys of your interest, and when you have found one that seems promising try for the wife/GF to seduce him. Hint: often seeking eye-contact or a smile and a wink are enough. See if he will make a move and start a conversation. Or get on the dancefloor and start dancing with the guy of your interest and see if he will move closer and perhaps even touch the wife/GF during the course of the dance. There are so many different scenarios possible, so be creative! - That subtle game of seduction can be a lot of fun for a (wannabe) wifesharing couple and could be one of the steps closer to your "goal".
What do you think?
