Hi! Well as my profile says I am married and my husband and I take part in this lifestyle to an extent. My husband has some issues sexually so we began inviting other men into the bedroom to make a long story as short as possible. I have always had a thing for black men so that was where my choice came into everything. I do not degrade my husband or cut him off from anything. I joined because it is nice to have a place to go and be open and chat with people enjoying similar lifestyles.