all i can say is what i wrote in "alyssa's children" posted on here
Girl initiating the cuckold lifestyle. Are we an exception?
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I m single andlooking for a woman who wants to benone a relation in cuckold way ...... but i don t find anyone
DeeandShelly
Male
I think that’s a problem for all single guys who would like to be cuckolds. Single women really have no need for guys to be in the background if they are looking for sex. They can hook themselves up. And I’ve never known a woman who purposely sought out a man with a small penis who acts like a sissy, as many of these guys describe themselves. They simply serve no purpose for the woman.
Wish I had an answer for your problem. Good luck.
Wife was already dating a sexy married black guy (a coworker) when I met her. She thought she would cut it off when we decided to marry, but the next time they encountered one another they found themselves back in bed again at her hotel. It was a turn on for both of us to know she still wanted and needed him and went on for another 6 years or so until his wife got goosey about it.
I suspect that more and more cuckold marriages have been beginning this way. Young single white woman over the past decade or so have been enjoying sexual relationships with black men more than ever before. It naturally becomes very addicting to them, as it should.
Then when they meet their white future husbands, they try to stop enjoying BBC, but often fail during their engagement to the white guy. Many (like my wife) will issue ultimatums to their Fiancé about having their BBC sexual freedom during the upcoming marriage or they will call off the wedding. Many love struck submissive men (like me) will gladly agree to her terms and willingly become cuckold or stag husbands.
This cuckold dynamic will continue to grow even faster as more and more white women enjoy black passion during their single years.
I will agree with Stevens and MaineSailor. Same experience with my wife. She had been dating black only when I met her. She fell in love with me but ultimately failed when trying to "go back." And along the lines of what JimmyDong was saying, instead of taking me up on an offer of a 3-way with a black guy of her choice, she just went around behind my back getting what she was craving and needing. Only after I busted her cheating that she finally agreed to doing things with me included.
strong point made. a weak male is not truly a man...even if you're small, still be strong, bold & be a man. get her attention, then once you have it, win her heart. after you have done that, then introduce the idea of her having lovers to satisfy her instinctive & sexual needs.
a bitchboi can never truly be a husband.
this is possible, but primarily if you're making BANK & you're upfront about her having her "cake" & "eating" it too!
DeeandShelly
Male
Perfect response!
i am still my wife's husband on more than just paper.
some time again, we had a bull-wanna be (6-8/270) who thought he could be insultive & demeaning toward me.
...well that didn't work out so well for him. he was just a football thuggi. i'm a COMBAT soldier.
he found out you can still be a pussy, even if you've got 10+!
it's what my alyssa expects from me. I AM the protector & enforcer. velvet over steel!
so i tell all these cuckolds...
don't just be an accessory to the marriage, be a partner.
be your wife's HUSBAND.
if i cuck a guy, per se...i still refuse to demean him.
i'll also look the wife in the eyes & tell her to stop that sh!t.
"you chose to marry him, so don't piss on your choice or him!"
that's very much how i am, even if he is indeed a boicunt!
you don't get respect by giving disrespect, ever!!!
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Personally I'd say it's far less common that way round, especially the way you have gone about talking it through etc.
Most men who don't initiate it just catch their wife cheating and know they have no other option than to like it or lump it.. so most like it or tolerate and learn to accept and love it.
If I'm wrong please someone correct me... bit this is what I see most of the time.
Have fun with it. We'll done. A real inspiration for other women to approach the subject. I think we all want it really. The couple that aren't doing it are in denial... and missing out.
This is me exactly lol. Just because you like your wife enjoy nthe biggest best men you can find, it doesn't make you a bitch. It takes more balls to be to be secret enough to allow and enjoy it. Not enough light bulls! To many wannabe wh thing a hotwife means easy fuck because hubby is a weak bitck begging her to fuck anyone lol... not tye case. It way more effort to be a proper bull. The amount of so called bulls I have had to put in their place! I should be a bull. I have all the attributes, but I prefer the role of cuck. But as said above. Don't mistake cuck for mug or weak. If so.. at your own risk be it. Remember your often in a room lost in a moment with your back turned to us lol.. think about that before you get your role carried away
newbiecpl2018
Couple
My wife was curious and attracted to black men from the start, meaning curiosity and attraction, not openly saying she wanted to try it. Honestly, when we were younger, I wanted nothing to do with any type of sharing, I didn’t encourage any of that type of talk and would change the subject. For example, she would point out a guy was attractive on TV and it was always a black man. A few times she asked questions about the stereotypes. I wasn’t secure or mature enough to handle it, I would change the subject. Over time knowing she was curious and having different situations occurred, with maturity, that changed. It was a long process; it went from making me uncomfortable to turning me on. The roles sort of flip, it was me dropping hints. She was in her career/mom mode and she didn’t seem interested. It took us several years for us both to be on the same page.
How many times does this probably happen and the husbands dont realize how lucky they are.
I would say it happens a lot more than husbands are aware of. Usually the wife just cheats behind her husbands back, and he never knows it is happening. I just so happened to find out quite by accident
it's rare but you are not the only one. I put an ad on CRAIGSLIST for a cuck 10 years ago
Looks like it totally worked out.
