First timers

We are in line :))) Had couple candidates but wife is seriously freaking out due to their age... There is an excess of young men in our area but she says that it turns her off, and I trust it does. Perhaps most of the mature men are attached. Our pool has significantly shrunk....


We have met 2 guys at public places and we didn’t go past a couple drinks for several reasons. Then we have had 2 guys come to our home, at separate times of course. One was just plain rude and was shown the door. The other was too, for lack of a better word, dirty and we just talked a bit. Then there was the last guy. He was a very polite, well spoken gentleman who came to our home, after being verified. Better yet interrogated by my husband first. We were having a good conversation and drinking too. We were trading stories about meeting people and the ups and downs of it all when suddenly he stood up and said “well I’m for real” and dropped his shorts. I have seen some large cocks in my time, but my god his cock hung halfway down his leg. I looked at my husband and told him I couldn’t do it now. He told me he didn’t have a problem if I wanted to but to be quite honest, it was so big it scared me to where I instantly knew no way I wanted my first to be that big, maybe never. I told him honestly how I felt and he said it wasn’t the first time he had heard that and no problem. We talked about another hour or so and he left, after telling us he would come back if we ever wanted him to.
Now given our time constraints we very seldom have the time, and most of the time when we do, we are both too damn tired. So we just watch some porn, talk about it, fuck, then go to sleep.
I’m sure some don’t understand but many people’s lives dictate when and where someone can or cannot do something.

We hope one day we are able to meet a guy that I have talked to here on this site. I admit I do have a problem with much younger guys who want to fuck. I feel like they are my kid and it freaks me out, so right now that’s a hang up for me. My husband just tells me “whenever you’re ready” and so it goes.
Sorry for the novel but just because someone doesn’t want to meet you right away, it may be for a good reason.
 
We are in line :))) Had couple candidates but wife is seriously freaking out due to their age... There is an excess of young men in our area but she says that it turns her off, and I trust it does. Perhaps most of the mature men are attached. Our pool has significantly shrunk....

We've had so many offers from very young guys but there is just no way right now. From a physical standpoint they are studs but intellectually it would be awkward due the generational gap. Perhaps as time goes by they might be suitable for a brief interlude but that would be it most likely
 
We have met 2 guys at public places and we didn’t go past a couple drinks for several reasons. Then we have had 2 guys come to our home, at separate times of course. One was just plain rude and was shown the door. The other was too, for lack of a better word, dirty and we just talked a bit. Then there was the last guy. He was a very polite, well spoken gentleman who came to our home, after being verified. Better yet interrogated by my husband first. We were having a good conversation and drinking too. We were trading stories about meeting people and the ups and downs of it all when suddenly he stood up and said “well I’m for real” and dropped his shorts. I have seen some large cocks in my time, but my god his cock hung halfway down his leg. I looked at my husband and told him I couldn’t do it now. He told me he didn’t have a problem if I wanted to but to be quite honest, it was so big it scared me to where I instantly knew no way I wanted my first to be that big, maybe never. I told him honestly how I felt and he said it wasn’t the first time he had heard that and no problem. We talked about another hour or so and he left, after telling us he would come back if we ever wanted him to.
Now given our time constraints we very seldom have the time, and most of the time when we do, we are both too damn tired. So we just watch some porn, talk about it, fuck, then go to sleep.
I’m sure some don’t understand but many people’s lives dictate when and where someone can or cannot do something.

We hope one day we are able to meet a guy that I have talked to here on this site. I admit I do have a problem with much younger guys who want to fuck. I feel like they are my kid and it freaks me out, so right now that’s a hang up for me. My husband just tells me “whenever you’re ready” and so it goes.
Sorry for the novel but just because someone doesn’t want to meet you right away, it may be for a good reason.

Knew of a girl who met a guy like you described. Went with him to a hotel room where she got undressed first and sat on the bed and then watched as he got undressed. She took one look at the size of his penis and pointed at it and told him "if you think you are putting that inside me you are crazy." Poor fella.
 
We are in line :))) Had couple candidates but wife is seriously freaking out due to their age... There is an excess of young men in our area but she says that it turns her off, and I trust it does. Perhaps most of the mature men are attached. Our pool has significantly shrunk....
You should consider traveling to a mature guy you could find on b2w. We met with one in a different location and it was great.
 
many people’s lives dictate when and where someone can or cannot do something.
True. Especially while negotiating there is a risk of feeling compelled to accept conditions you are not comfortable with.
I admit I do have a problem with much younger guys who want to fuck. I feel like they are my kid and it freaks me out, so right now that’s a hang up for me.
We were a little apprehensive about dating young guys, because we are precisely young. Don't get me wrong, I'd like to have a young 'bull', but not at this stage where we only just made our first steps into this lifestyle. It's always better to have someone with experience and patience when you start or learn something new.
 
Where are all the first timer not yet blackened
We are here too!

The GF had a date with someone but he was just not the right person! No spark at all.

So there was no possibility of her getting blacked.

We are from London, if anyone is travelling here please let us know.
 
Good to know your out there wish you all was closer it's time to travel. Most I ever travel was 3 hrs away and it was a great experience been seeing them about 3yrs now always a fun time
 
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