Ouch! if you did you’ve come to the toughest decision all people face in this lifestyle. Jealousy and betrayal, both exceedingly difficult to deal with. Honesty between spouses or lovers is a big part of every relationship. Hard to love or stay with someone you cannot trust. You have two choices, accept it and move on as if you had not discovered it or tell you know. If you are not looking to end things talk without hate or condemning words.
Silence works I had a uncle who's wife had a extra man or two. As a teen we all knew and i know he did because i told him i knew. He made me promise to say nothing to her. She never knew he knew. All that was in a three year period of their fifty four year marriage. Merely a bump in a very long road. Seeing them together i believe he made the right choice.
The wife who mentioned finding her profile posted by husband without her knowledge is going to feel almost the same things as the man who found his wife’s. Some different because he has portrayed her as who knows, slut, whore. All without her knowing. I doubt the wife’s found profile berated her husband. Her choice is easier, he's got some fantasy going. He's not looking for another woman. Unless he's giving out her # or address or a recent photo while still disturbing easier to say nothing.
