I think anyone white who gets turned on by black men doing white women, should take a cold hard look at how they see black men, and black people and general. While I can understand being turned on by it occasionally, I don't think being so into it that it becomes a fetish thing is healthy, and might indicate some kind of subconscious racism. Racist white people have always liked to see black people in physical action, from slavery, to sports, to music and acting. So, when it comes to sex, I don't see it as any different. White people - in particular white men - are about cultural dominance. Even though a white cuckhold man plays a submissive role, he has the power to stop his wife from sleeping with a black man. Yet, he doesn't, because he - like his white wife - likes the feeling of giving a black man the illusion of sexual control. Throughout history, white people have had sexual access to black men and women, so it doesn't matter if you are white and racist or just plain white - you can have whoever you want, because you are the dominant society in America. However, a truly self-actualized. conscious, assertive black man, has to tread carefully, when pursuing a white woman. And, even if he does succeed in getting her, he often has to play strictly by her rules, as a white woman. In fact, too often, if the black man gets out line - and history attests this - she uses her white female privledge, toi accuse him of *******, and along comes the white man to save her, by punishing the black man. So, basically, while I love sex with white women, whether I get permission from white hubby or not, I'm not naive about the racial politics and hierarchy going on. ...