i would give insight in my own personal sexual development or progression and my likes for porn and how both have changed throughout the years but i don't because that would be too exhaustive and probably off-topic here, so i'll leave that to another thread/post.
But judging from my own personal experience with porn
and what i hear and read from other sources i came to the conclusion that porn may have an effect on how people look at sex. But in the end i have to say that those effects are minimal to non-existent when we talk about a particular porn niche.
The way porn may influence some people's sex-lives is that it may create or instill an image of how we see human sexual interactions. This may lead to individuals adopting styles of sex or lovemaking that are common or typical portrayals in porn into their own sexual behavior, and raise expectations of what a sex partner might expect from themselves. So the actual effect is how we who have watched porn have sex with a partner as opposed to how we would have sex if we never would have watched porn in the first place.
The reason why i say those effects are minimal to non-existent when we look at individual porn niches is that nobody is f0rced to watch a particular niche. If you prefer watching Women having sex with Black men (like i do
- and then lesbian scenes too) that's because it is the porn you choose. However there are plenty of porns to choose from. So every type of porn people watch is intrinsically their own individual choice - conscious or not.
Any attraction to or preference for a particular type or niche of porn is rooted in the beholder's mind. It might have slumbered or been stuck in the subconscious first and then been awakened or brought to light by the contact with content that triggers the turn-on and arousal. But in the end it is more a process of finding out who you are sexually than porn turning you into somebody you are not genuinely. Otherwise you would watch different types of porn indifferently, interchangeably. But that is not the case. You are turning toward some more than others.
Everybody has their preferences!
- Just my cheap two cents.