The same thing i said about filling in one`s profile is of course true not only for couples but single persons as well.
Posting pictures or videos on your profile
that show yourself may be helpful too. Verification is the key for those who are not being discriminated against, and you should consider this too.
Anyhow, accept that this is not mainly a hookup site. Most of the million plus members were nine-day wonders or are just not active any longer. Many of those approx. few hundreds who still are are not looking for hook-ups. Some just explore the forums, watch the pics and vids, or like to fantasize about their sexual "kink". Others are into exchanging pictures or videos with other members. Those who seriously want to meet in real life are perhaps very few. Also the members distribute all around the globe, so to find someone for real meetings in your area is in most cases not that easy.
The best chances you`ll have, if you do the above (profile info, pictures and verification) and happen to live in a big city area either in the US or the UK. Other than this, you may have to consider travelling some distance for a hook-up. :\ Never do this without having "reasonable truth" that the desired "partner" is in fact real and willing to meet.
Gradually intensifying your "connection" is the key here. See who answers your advertisments first, go on to use the private massaging capabilities of this site, then move on to other channels like Skype or kik or such. Eventually, if you have good judgement that the person you communicate with is in fact what they pretend to be
and you have "mutually compatible" ideas, you might decide to even exchange personal phone numbers in order to arrange an appointment. But be cautious with that step. Good luck!