I hope you'll get over that feeling and just enjoy your wife getting the best dick she'll ever get -- and that is black dick.To be honest... I was a bit disappointed in myself after witnessing a complete stranger casually accomplish things I was never able to in 15 years
Did it change you ?
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feetandheels
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Slutty looking wife. Only for BBC.. she's our toy.
BBCAddictCpl
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Fair enough. I guess we'll see (hopefully)
No changes.
Before my husband and I were in the typical marital rut. Having been married for about ten years, things had gone stale. While we had sex, it was more going through the motions, no real passion, no real desire. It a way, we were kind of like roommates, sharing the same house, but not having the fun we used to have.
Then, after it happened, everything changed. Sex with my husband became exciting, enjoyable and fun again. We found ourselves doing things together; dinners, movies, concerts and the like once again. It really turned a switch for the two of us and we found we loved it!
To be sure, any new adventure, sexual or otherwise, runs the risk of becoming as old and stale as the original marriage does. So we decided very early on to limit our play to about once a month or every six weeks. Some in this forum may think that's too long before play times. However, we found it perfect in that it allows us to do things together, fun things, enjoyable things. Then, when playtime does roll around, it's like an amusement park!
The excitement, the anticipation, and the aftermath all contribute to inject new life into our relationship, which is the ultimate goal. We're in this together, for the both of us and for the maintenance of our marriage. Instead of steadily drifting apart, him becoming involved in stamp collecting and my taking up knitting, we have this wonderfully exciting life to live!
By far, it's the best thing that ever happened to us, without a doubt!
Then, after it happened, everything changed. Sex with my husband became exciting, enjoyable and fun again. We found ourselves doing things together; dinners, movies, concerts and the like once again. It really turned a switch for the two of us and we found we loved it!
To be sure, any new adventure, sexual or otherwise, runs the risk of becoming as old and stale as the original marriage does. So we decided very early on to limit our play to about once a month or every six weeks. Some in this forum may think that's too long before play times. However, we found it perfect in that it allows us to do things together, fun things, enjoyable things. Then, when playtime does roll around, it's like an amusement park!
The excitement, the anticipation, and the aftermath all contribute to inject new life into our relationship, which is the ultimate goal. We're in this together, for the both of us and for the maintenance of our marriage. Instead of steadily drifting apart, him becoming involved in stamp collecting and my taking up knitting, we have this wonderfully exciting life to live!
By far, it's the best thing that ever happened to us, without a doubt!
BBCAddictCpl
Male
That is one of the healthiest perspectives I've ever come across on this forum. Congrats to you and your husband.
Thank you very much for your comments! We really appreciate them. All I can add is that it works for us!
Yes definitely changed me. Made me love him more than I did before, which I didnāt think was possible. This lifestyle has allowed us to explore a part of our relationship that we never knew was there all the time. So better and better with every date I have. Iām happy which is what makes him happy. Win/win
Wow!! this is our story in a nutshell. Of course, right now with everything going on we are not active, but exactly as you mention, things changed for us. It was my idea initially, and I wish I would have told her about my fantasy years before I actually did. We definitely were growing apart. We've become closer, more like the best friends we were when we got married. And talk about judgement free. We can talk about anything now and work it out like never before. Our close circle of friends even noticed how it seemed that we were much closer and acting like teenagers around each other lol.
I love how black cock brings not only marriages together, makes them stronger more intimate and passionate than ever before, but also brings all of us bbc lovers together. I feel such a powerful bond so instantly when i meet a fellow bbc loving white girl or guy. Ive never felt that before not as powerful as often that is for sure!
AndroidBlonde
Female
Yes and no. I mean that in the sense I love my husband and he is still my husband that I come home to. It is nice however to be able to get back into that more wild side of my life that I thought was in the past and done with.
Wow this thread has been laying dormant for a while now I'm actually surprised that someone saw it and commented again!! So to you Dblinsey,hubbyfun4wife and to you AndroidBlonde I thank you lovely ladies for sharing your story with us, at the the time that I wrote this thread I thought it was pretty interesting ? and I love some of the replies that I got and I knew there were others that probably wanted to share their story with others too so once again thank you ladies 
Are you still together?
We had been swinging for a number of years, but the swinging scene itself got boring and even clicks. Then she came across a black guy that gave her an amazing time. He became a regular. He was considerate but dominant and she discovered her submissive side. He came around once a month for a year but then found a girlfriend and it ended.
It took a long time to find another suitable black man. It seems there are typically two types of guys in this space (Whether black or white) The ones that want to just fuck, dominate, abuse, and couldnāt give a ******* about the womanās marriage, only having sex. Then there are the ones that respect the woman and the couple and their marriage. The latter of these two is hard to find and took time.
She eventually found a wonderful man who is strong and dominant but also very respectful of our relationship. He built our trust in him and he and I are friends now. We all know what we want out of the relationship and ensure we are all getting it. I love seeing her satisfied in ways I could never satisfy her. She loves the feelings he gives her and the kinky games we play. He thinks she is incredible and loves having her to enjoy. So it has brought us closer and certainly put a spark in our relationship. We have a wonderful marriage and relationship, and bringing a bull into our marriage has made it more exciting and fun, as well as creating the bond between us even stronger
It took a long time to find another suitable black man. It seems there are typically two types of guys in this space (Whether black or white) The ones that want to just fuck, dominate, abuse, and couldnāt give a ******* about the womanās marriage, only having sex. Then there are the ones that respect the woman and the couple and their marriage. The latter of these two is hard to find and took time.
She eventually found a wonderful man who is strong and dominant but also very respectful of our relationship. He built our trust in him and he and I are friends now. We all know what we want out of the relationship and ensure we are all getting it. I love seeing her satisfied in ways I could never satisfy her. She loves the feelings he gives her and the kinky games we play. He thinks she is incredible and loves having her to enjoy. So it has brought us closer and certainly put a spark in our relationship. We have a wonderful marriage and relationship, and bringing a bull into our marriage has made it more exciting and fun, as well as creating the bond between us even stronger
paystobemeek
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Was it hubbyās idea? Did it take you long to warm up to the idea?
Not if you communicate. Too many couples do it to āsparkā their relationship. Ours is all about him wanting me to be his āpornstarā. But we live out all fantasies. Additional men, women, couples. Just communicate and itās fine and eventually you can take 5 BBc 
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Yes it changed me ... I have been with 3 different black men since our 7th anniversary. My husband has no idea. Each time I cheated I was away from home at nurses conferences. The 1st time was in Atlanta the 2nd and 3rd times were in San Diego. Each time I said to myself it would be the last time. I love my husband and really don't like to cuckold him. He's a very attentive lover and the sex we have is very good ... the oral is great! but I have never cum so hard or so many times with him as I did with the black guys ... it's not just that they have such big cocks ... it's their attitude about sex and white women ... wives especially .... I had never been fucked so hard or talked to so dirty ... it got me so hot and wet ... they kept making me tell them how much better they were than my husband ... I felt like a cheating slut and I loved it but felt guilty at the same time. I have told myself I wont cheat again ... and with the virus I have not attended any conferences ... I hope I can keep my resolve ... but I keep coming back here and I have so many fantasies and masturbate a lot thinking of when I cheated.
