Let's start a discussion about best practices for using regular dating or hookup apps to meet a potential hotwife / cuckoldress for a long term loving relationship and possible marriage. NOT for looking for professionals to watch.
Here's a couple of things that have worked for me:
I have outright mentioned that I'm a cuckold on an Okcupid profile, but that appeared to be oversharing, and I only received interest from one woman that lived hundreds of miles away, and I also was not physically attracted to her. She did know the cuckolding kink well though, and chided me a little bit about certain ways of cuckolding and what I might want.
Here's a couple of things that have worked for me:
- On Okcupid, in the "most private thing I'm willing to share" section of my profile, I try various ways of mentioning non-monogamy. I think the best is to say that I'm monogamish. The next best, if I remember correctly, was to say that I like one-sided open relationships, where she had more freedom than me because I'm slightly submissive.
- I've mentioned on my profile that I have past experience with polyamory, but this all to often gets me women that want to practice very egalitarian polyamory with unimpressive guys. It's a snooze fest when they have a date with someone that is not intimidating in any way.
- Some people on a different forum suggested that I only mention "kink friendly" as a descriptor of myself on a dating profile, and nothing further. This was a guy. While the women were telling me to say that I'm seeking something monogamish or open. I tend to think the guy is correct, and that mentioning interest in an open relationship runs too many women off. After all, I don't need it to be open on both sides, especially not equally open.
I have outright mentioned that I'm a cuckold on an Okcupid profile, but that appeared to be oversharing, and I only received interest from one woman that lived hundreds of miles away, and I also was not physically attracted to her. She did know the cuckolding kink well though, and chided me a little bit about certain ways of cuckolding and what I might want.