Cuckold - where to start?

Hi All

Would appreciate some advice.

I'm a 30 something married asian male here looking to get my (also asian) wife of 10 years into cuckolding. My wife is very conservative and I'm her first lover. We watch porn together sometimes during foreplay to get us in the mood. I've noticed she's especially turned on by porn involving well-hung black males, or well-hung male porn stars in general. The idea of her being fucked by a well-hung black man really turns me on.

As mentioned before, she's very conservative so there's absolutely no chance she'd straight up sleep with another man if I suggested it to her. However, during sex she can be very explicit and gets aroused when I talk dirty to her about fucking another woman. I also know that she has a thing for black men in general. I'm thinking to book us a couples massage where I get massaged by the female and she gets massaged by the male, preferrably a black male, to see if that could break the ice so to speak?

Would that be a good idea?
 
Hi All

Would appreciate some advice.

I'm a 30 something married asian male here looking to get my (also asian) wife of 10 years into cuckolding. My wife is very conservative and I'm her first lover. We watch porn together sometimes during foreplay to get us in the mood. I've noticed she's especially turned on by porn involving well-hung black males, or well-hung male porn stars in general. The idea of her being fucked by a well-hung black man really turns me on.

As mentioned before, she's very conservative so there's absolutely no chance she'd straight up sleep with another man if I suggested it to her. However, during sex she can be very explicit and gets aroused when I talk dirty to her about fucking another woman. I also know that she has a thing for black men in general. I'm thinking to book us a couples massage where I get massaged by the female and she gets massaged by the male, preferrably a black male, to see if that could break the ice so to speak?

Would that be a good idea?
No. Acting like an adult and having and honest conversation with the person you’re closest to in the entire world is a good idea. Growing up and being a man …as much as a cuckold can … is a great fucking idea.
 
No. Acting like an adult and having and honest conversation with the person you’re closest to in the entire world is a good idea. Growing up and being a man …as much as a cuckold can … is a great fucking idea.
Conservative wives take time. You cant just throw it on her all at once. I did that and aboutruin my marriage
 
Hi All

Would appreciate some advice.

I'm a 30 something married asian male here looking to get my (also asian) wife of 10 years into cuckolding. My wife is very conservative and I'm her first lover. We watch porn together sometimes during foreplay to get us in the mood. I've noticed she's especially turned on by porn involving well-hung black males, or well-hung male porn stars in general. The idea of her being fucked by a well-hung black man really turns me on.

As mentioned before, she's very conservative so there's absolutely no chance she'd straight up sleep with another man if I suggested it to her. However, during sex she can be very explicit and gets aroused when I talk dirty to her about fucking another woman. I also know that she has a thing for black men in general. I'm thinking to book us a couples massage where I get massaged by the female and she gets massaged by the male, preferrably a black male, to see if that could break the ice so to speak?

Would that be a good idea?
Bro, before you put what you have described as your super conservative wife in what basically amounts to total “surprise” situation… which I PROMISE you will be immediately discovered by her to be a total set up… and you ruin the trust between you two, cause irreparable damage, and even possibly put an end to the marriage….

COMMUNICATE WITH HER.
COMMUNICATE.
COMMUNICATE.
COMMUNICATE.

do not skip this very important first step. It’s scary, I know. I was there once.
But let me assure you, that if this conservative wife of yours willingly watches and enjoys porn during your foreplay time…. And if SHE is genuinely choosing to watch porn that includes well hung black men…. And she’s not being ******* by you to watch that kind of porn, like it’s genuinely her choosing that of her own free will…

then she’s more open to it than you think she is. And I would bet that once you and your mountain of nerves broke the ice with a simple conversation….. within a couple minutes your mind would be blown at how receptive she is and not a single one of those nerves would exist anymore.
 
Hi All

Would appreciate some advice.

I'm a 30 something married asian male here looking to get my (also asian) wife of 10 years into cuckolding. My wife is very conservative and I'm her first lover. We watch porn together sometimes during foreplay to get us in the mood. I've noticed she's especially turned on by porn involving well-hung black males, or well-hung male porn stars in general. The idea of her being fucked by a well-hung black man really turns me on.

As mentioned before, she's very conservative so there's absolutely no chance she'd straight up sleep with another man if I suggested it to her. However, during sex she can be very explicit and gets aroused when I talk dirty to her about fucking another woman. I also know that she has a thing for black men in general. I'm thinking to book us a couples massage where I get massaged by the female and she gets massaged by the male, preferrably a black male, to see if that could break the ice so to speak?

Would that be a good idea?
my wife is similar _ i will try to plant some seeds about bbc and hotwifing in her mind when i take her out to places where black guys are .
hope she becomes curious .
and i hope there will be a conversation later on .
it takes time but yes conversation is the key and beeing patient .
it s just not easy if she s got an traditionel chinese education .
 
Bro, before you put what you have described as your super conservative wife in what basically amounts to total “surprise” situation… which I PROMISE you will be immediately discovered by her to be a total set up… and you ruin the trust between you two, cause irreparable damage, and even possibly put an end to the marriage….

COMMUNICATE WITH HER.
COMMUNICATE.
COMMUNICATE.
COMMUNICATE.

do not skip this very important first step. It’s scary, I know. I was there once.
But let me assure you, that if this conservative wife of yours willingly watches and enjoys porn during your foreplay time…. And if SHE is genuinely choosing to watch porn that includes well hung black men…. And she’s not being ******* by you to watch that kind of porn, like it’s genuinely her choosing that of her own free will…

then she’s more open to it than you think she is. And I would bet that once you and your mountain of nerves broke the ice with a simple conversation….. within a couple minutes your mind would be blown at how receptive she is and not a single one of those nerves would exist anymore.
Hey, thank you for the reply, what you said makes a lot of sense but I'm VERY nervous about having that conversation with her! How do I go about it? Any advice? Thank you!
 
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