Cuck vs. Cuckwannabe

[GQ180]

I come across it alot how do you guys define the two. My understanding for my time in the cuckold lifestyle is that cuck is a man that enjoy his wife or gf sleeping with other men. Cuckwannabe is a married man that fantasize about his wife being with other men and is attempting to get his wife to cuckold him.
What do you guys think? Have some single men claiming they are a cuck, but have no significant other to cuckold them.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

i'd extend the term "cuck wannabe" to include single men who fantasize about having a wife or GF who would cuckold them with other men.
Also some guys are less interested in a "cuck relationship" than the illusion and prefer paying a professional "cuckoldrix" for her service to actually having a partner who would cuckold them for real.

i am a single male and do neither claim to be a "cuck" nor a "cuck wannabe". i've been in relationships before, and have indulged in swinging as well as wifesharing. i'd call myself a "wifesharer at heart" because i have an understanding of the concept behind it and the experience that left me with a stash of good and hot memories.

 

[cuckQuixote]

The difference between a cuck and a wantabe is one is or perhaps has lived in a cuckold relationship while the other lives in fantasy and often want to tell others how it should be. Wannabes often have very unrealistic fantasies. Cuckolds and Cuckoldresses have fantasies but we have to live in the real world with professions, friends, family, and *******.

 

[extrafun]

The difference between a cuck and a wantabe is on is or perhaps has lived in a cuckold relationship while the other lives in fantasy and often want to tell others how it should be.

Fantasy fits 90% of guys on here. You can tell because they speak out of their ass. A big reason why they are single.

 

[charliecuck85]

I would have said.....

Cuckold = married and actively sharing
Cuckwannabe = married and fantasising
Beta = single and fantasising.

there is a “pussyfree” fetish among us betas where other betas claim to be pussyfree for the BNWO. Really I’m pussyfree because I clam up and act like a weirdo around girls.

 

[demalejpo]

I was a cuck wannabe for many years. Then I became impotent and my wife fucked our black neighbor. That officially made me a cuck.

 

[cuckQuixote]

Cuckold = married and actively sharing
Cuckwannabe = married and fantasising
Beta = single and fantasising.

Beta is the mind set that most cuckolds and wannabe's have. If a single man is looking for a cuckoding relationship he is a wannabe.

There are a few cuckolds like my husband that have developed as successful Alpha's professionally but crave the beta mind set at home. Just as many successful CEO turn to a Dominatirix in BDSM. A couple of years before we were married, my husband started seeing a Domme without knowing that she prided herself in changing her subs outlook in life.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

I would have said.....

Cuckold = married and actively sharing
Cuckwannabe = married and fantasising
Beta = single and fantasising.

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i do not think "Beta" would be the right term for what you are describing. Beta is a term already in use, a very general one that describes part of the Alpha/beta dynamic which relies on social interaction. A guy sitting home alone wanking to some porn as his assumed role of sexual expression does not fit that definition. Perhaps - in the broadest sense - you could include those types in the "beta" description, but ImO using an existing term, and a very general one, for a person in a very specific lifestyle is never a good idea. Perhaps find a different/better term?

Also "Cuckwannabe", if taken literally, says nothing about a guy's relationship status but only that he would like to assume the role of a cuckold. Perhaps with his current wife or girlfriend, but also perhaps in a future relationship, especially if he's currently single.

 

[worshipu9]

The difference between a cuck and a wantabe is one is or perhaps has lived in a cuckold relationship while the other lives in fantasy and often want to tell others how it should be. Wannabe often have very unrealistic fantasies. Cuckolds and Cuckoldresses have fantasies but we have to live in the real world with professions, friends, family, and *******.

I consider my self a wanna be now. I was a cuck for many years but my wife stopped playing a few years ago, unfortunately.
But having been a cuck it was the best sexual time of my life. Nothing compares to it and i am still addicted to you beautiful Black Men

 

[submission52]

Two types of wannabes. One who simply fantasizes about it (far too many of these folks), and one who hope to find a woman into the lifestyle so he can be a cuck in the future.