My wife has been getting into having casual sex for about four years, and we've been in Sac for almost a year. She's petite, athletic, conventionally beautiful, and she loves sex. She's working on her PhD and she's a stereotypical grad student (wool sweater, flat canvas shoes, jeans). She's smart and she loses interest if a guy can't keep up in a chat about his own interests. She's NOT at all into the obedience/submission thing; she enjoys feeling like an equal and being genuine friends with a guy. We're checking out this site because she's really into guys who are fit and hung; she doesn't care much about ethnicity. She's just really into athletic guys with unusually big dicks. If you have interesting things to chat about, you're open to a real friendship, and you're not pushy at all (gentle and laid back), let us know. She's also hoping to make friends with girls in the Sac area who are into going out and meeting guys.