Couple from Baltimore

#5
I think safety might be the most significant thing. Also, I think she's reluctant to see sex as just sex. I'm trying to encourage slow steps -- online chatting, drinks, etc. A long run-up to the sex itself.
 
#7
She knows about the fantasy. We've discussed it, played with toys, watched porn. That's about it though. That's about it though. Trying to push it to the next level.
 
#9
She says she doesn't have fantasies. (We've been married for six years, together for twelve...so I'm inclined to believe her.). But she isn't turned off by the idea, although I think she might be a little bit intimidated.