there are quite a few clubs in NC and I've been to two. I get invited to alot of them but I feel why pay to go to a club when you can bring the club to you for free and I know a few of the club goers .
Anyway you guys weren't specific with your locations but you can check out the site below that advertises alot of parties in Charlotte, and Greensboro. Then there is 'The House' up in Raleigh which I know a few hot couples who attend that frequently and YKW in Fayetteville. You may have to p/m me for more details if you want them.