MattHat
Male
Hey guys so thanks in advance for reading.
We have been married for 13 years. I knew my wife had a little deceptive side to her based on her activities in college. Since being married she has cheated once that I know of, although she doesn't know that I know. I suspect she has cheated a lot more because once, after more than 8 years of marriage, she dropped a casual comment about how she always cums doggy style. But with me she literally has never cum doggy style. She has always been extremely honest and specific with me about when she cums, and she has no problem telling me if she didn't.
So I've been watching cuckold porn and getting increasingly obsessed with the idea over the last roughly 10 years. So I've finally decided I'm going to start pushing the envelope. In the last 6 months I've told her three times that I want to watch her fuck another guy. The first time she was super surprised (when I was young I used to be the jealous type). The other two times she didn't react that much, but just kind of said she didn't think it was a good idea. She didn't say that she didn't want to. All three times we were both kind of ******* laying in bed in the dark.
So my plan right now is to just start showering her with little gifts here and there, and then just start really telling her I want her to be free. I'm going to tell her at least once a week, and in the daylight so she can see me and see I am serious. The thing is, I don't know why she is reluctant. Does she only like cheating if it is sneaky? Wouldn't it always be more liberating to do it openly?
So my question is, how do I really push it? I've thought about trying to get her to start a Tinder account to just see what kind of responses she gets. Like just for fun, you don't have to respond. Any other ideas?? I don't think she is the type to just go to a bar, but she could surprise me...
We have been married for 13 years. I knew my wife had a little deceptive side to her based on her activities in college. Since being married she has cheated once that I know of, although she doesn't know that I know. I suspect she has cheated a lot more because once, after more than 8 years of marriage, she dropped a casual comment about how she always cums doggy style. But with me she literally has never cum doggy style. She has always been extremely honest and specific with me about when she cums, and she has no problem telling me if she didn't.
So I've been watching cuckold porn and getting increasingly obsessed with the idea over the last roughly 10 years. So I've finally decided I'm going to start pushing the envelope. In the last 6 months I've told her three times that I want to watch her fuck another guy. The first time she was super surprised (when I was young I used to be the jealous type). The other two times she didn't react that much, but just kind of said she didn't think it was a good idea. She didn't say that she didn't want to. All three times we were both kind of ******* laying in bed in the dark.
So my plan right now is to just start showering her with little gifts here and there, and then just start really telling her I want her to be free. I'm going to tell her at least once a week, and in the daylight so she can see me and see I am serious. The thing is, I don't know why she is reluctant. Does she only like cheating if it is sneaky? Wouldn't it always be more liberating to do it openly?
So my question is, how do I really push it? I've thought about trying to get her to start a Tinder account to just see what kind of responses she gets. Like just for fun, you don't have to respond. Any other ideas?? I don't think she is the type to just go to a bar, but she could surprise me...
