Being dominant & loving cuckold games

[loupetlouve]

I (Nico, male) see tons of messages where we, as a couple, don’t find at all the match.

I mean, being in that game and not being openminded to other ways of thinking would just be stupid, so we understand. But in the same time, we don’t see our way of thinking, or looking at some posts it feels like impossible.

While I know that we are not the same living this way:
- I am a dominant. Big cock, white.
- she is a rock solid in life, but submissive in sex.
- she is the only one in my life for whom I leave my fangs for nice tooth, should be called love I guess lol
- we play cuckold games for years
- never I feel like serving the bbc, wearing a cage, having to obey, or all of that mindset; totally the opposite
- the bbc is our host, I give him the priviledge to play with my queen
- in that game, she love to abandon her mind as a role play, and to become his thing
- why bbc - nothing about dominant, race, whatever things I read. Just preference, as I prefer small asses for girls she loves black men. And big cocks lol More over, black guys we met here are much more smiling, more sympathic, more fun !
- in the game I remain the dominant, meaning that I fuck her hard with him.
- and even with them, up to 5 guests already done !
- cum in her is part of the game, if the guy has been efficient to make a scream to pleasure
- I already put a guy out of the game in live, as he was going too far in the dominant role play with her, forgetting that I lead
- I see the game more, in a certain way, as a team sport game lol I am the leader of the team, and she is the goal to reach and bring to the highest level of pleasures

So you see, when I read things about cages, femboy which should be the future of white men, evolutions, serving, no right to cum in wife except the bull, etc. I, we, don’t recognize at all.
So I hope that this message would find similar couples, and bulls who cope with this mindset as well.

 

[Dan&Katie]

I (Nico, male) see tons of messages where we, as a couple, don’t find at all the match.

I mean, being in that game and not being openminded to other ways of thinking would just be stupid, so we understand. But in the same time, we don’t see our way of thinking, or looking at some posts it feels like impossible.

While I know that we are not the same living this way:
- I am a dominant. Big cock, white.
- she is a rock solid in life, but submissive in sex.
- she is the only one in my life for whom I leave my fangs for nice tooth, should be called love I guess lol
- we play cuckold games for years
- never I feel like serving the bbc, wearing a cage, having to obey, or all of that mindset; totally the opposite
- the bbc is our host, I give him the priviledge to play with my queen
- in that game, she love to abandon her mind as a role play, and to become his thing
- why bbc - nothing about dominant, race, whatever things I read. Just preference, as I prefer small asses for girls she loves black men. And big cocks lol More over, black guys we met here are much more smiling, more sympathic, more fun !
- in the game I remain the dominant, meaning that I fuck her hard with him.
- and even with them, up to 5 guests already done !
- cum in her is part of the game, if the guy has been efficient to make a scream to pleasure
- I already put a guy out of the game in live, as he was going too far in the dominant role play with her, forgetting that I lead
- I see the game more, in a certain way, as a team sport game lol I am the leader of the team, and she is the goal to reach and bring to the highest level of pleasures

So you see, when I read things about cages, femboy which should be the future of white men, evolutions, serving, no right to cum in wife except the bull, etc. I, we, don’t recognize at all.
So I hope that this message would find similar couples, and bulls who cope with this mindset as well.

I totally understand what you are saying I feel the same way. It van be what ever works for you.
Sometimes I'm the dominant and I make Katie please me, and get reward by and able to have pleasure from me... once she has fucked a hung "bull". It this situation I e en deed dom ober the "bull" as it was me who chose him, then choose to allow it and chose when he leaves.

There are other times where ilk go down a rabbit hole and before I know it, Iv set up a meet to get my arse fucked and destroyed infront of my my Mrs as the warm up act before he has her while I'm left quivering on the floor in a pool of his and my cum .

For me it van swing that far in 24 hours. So each to their own. Main thing I'd. Enjoy it and use it to enhance your relationship, not hinder.

 

[lilppsub]

Excellent Hot wife post Nico,

I totally get what you are saying in regards to how you can't relate to some of the submissive little cuckolds and their state of mind. Our distinct difference when comparing your state of mind and how you see yourself as totally opposite of the submissive cuckolds. He generally sees himself as an inadequate little wimp but doesn't really want anybody else to know.

You are on the opposite spectrum. A proud Dominant Alpha Big Cock Male who happens to be white. To me you are just as superior as any proud Dominant BBC male if you were to be active in that role. What we do have in common with this website is that we are openly expressing how it's a very exciting aphrodisiac to watch and listen to the woman you love being pleased by BIG BLACK COCK.

The physical primary difference between us is that the majority of submissive cuckolds are realistically inadequately endowed and unable to satisfy the woman they love, but they love them so much they are willing to surrender her to the ALPHA BIG COCK MALE to be thoroughly satisfied.

Little dick cuckolds very seldom have any intention of ever being a sissy, sucking cock, wearing a cage, being put in panties or being denied. But after being in the lifestyle it seems that it just naturally happens for us, once she has a big satisfying cock from a passionate BLACK ALPHA MALE with stamina. It's natural for a little cuckold to end up in that category when you have three and a half to five inches and last 2 minutes or less. If you want to stick around you learn to put up with it because it becomes a way of life and probably the most sexually exciting life such a little dick man will ever experience.

I am unable to relate to you as to how it must feel being a BWC or BBC male to actually swag into the room with confidence knowing that the women in that room see you as a virile man just by the way you naturally carry yourself. It's associated with your masculine characteristics. You feel assured that the women you attract are already sizing you up.

There was a time I wished I could have been in your shoes and be just like you.

The women I attract are ready to fall to their knees and start sucking you and I encourage them to allow the slut in themselves to come out. I am okay with it. If I were a capable big cock lover with a reasonable size cock with lots of stamina and virility I would probably be going down the same path as you.

But the reality is I have less than 4 inches between my legs when it's totally erect, it's like the steel peg you put in the hole for your trailer hitch, when it's soft it might be 1 1/2 inches.

In high school or at summer camp I was sure to keep it covered. I was always popular with the girls and then with the women but unfortunately once I took them to bed and brought out their passionate side, it was like I captured them. I would give them some really good finger play, lots of foreplay with sensuous deep tongue kissing, they would really enjoy how I could make them feel so wonderfully desirable, even the ones who were not confident about themselves, I guess that was my greatest strength.

If I could get away with stopping at that point I would have. As I became a little older I didn't want to stop. I would continue to make out and feel up her breasts, maybe kissing and sucking on them. I would usually make my way down to replace my fingers with my tongue and get into some enthusiastic wet sloppy oral. I would bring them to a few nice clitoral climaxes, each time, coming closer and closer to that special moment of penetrating her willing wet pussy.

She would be so wet, sometimes even quivering in anticipation, ready for me to make the plunge, the deep dive, and that's the moment I would dread the most. It WAS ALWAYS, yes, I said, ALWAYS, such an uncomfortable moment for me because I knew what was going to happen next when I would slide my steel hard micro four inch penis in her wet hot pussy.

More often than not, she would be so wet, so ready and willing, you know that feeling I'm talking about.

She is waiting with anticipation of feeling a big, stiff hard cock entering her, the intense sexual exciting moment that we had been building up to instantly turns into a confused and frustrating moment, it becomes a terribly disappointing moment once she realizes I have it all the way in and there is no more.

I always knew it was a very awkward and uncomfortable moment for the both of us.

Very seldom would they ever say anything, and that would make it even more uncomfortable, dead silence instead of the sounds of making love or being fucked, no moans, no breathless moment, no "OMG that feels so FUCKING good", instead she would just turn cold, as If I had just taken sexual advantage of her.

Later if we remained friendly, she would say, you know I wish you had told me so I wouldn't have to feel so bad because I didn't want to hurt your feelings or embarrass you for having such a small little cock.

After I faced the reality of those very disappointing moments I decided I would take a new approach. Go ahead and be honest. Tell a woman what a little wimp I can be because I have a micro size penis and that I really enjoy being submissive to a woman and will do anything they ask within reason. I promised to treat them like a QUEEN and give them ample attention, give them moisturizing body rubs, foot and shoulder massage anytime they want.

I would assure them I wouldn't be jealous if they needed a well endowed man, I totally understood.

The majority would say no, I don't think your size will make that much of a difference.

Of course those were the ones who never had size.

After a few experiences with me it was easy to convince them that it was okay with me if they wanted to change their mind and explore the cuckold lifestyle and hopefully be open to having a black experience. That is when I would promise to support her in that endeavor. I will do anything I can to enhance those situations. That is how it happened to me back in 1989 and then it developed. To each their own I say !! Here are some other articles I have written on the subject.

https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...usband-for-the-black-bull.274179/post-5035469

https://www.blacktowhite.net/media/boyfriend-regrets-sharing-girl-with-bbc.664584/ The last three postings are mine



https://www.blacktowhite.net/profile-posts/comments/433981/ This is my favorite that I wrote

 

[Anthony0542]

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[ligiaadjacent]

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