He now has his own bull when we meet with this old friend of ours. But he doesn't express any craving.
Bad, cool, mean... you judge...
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if ou want to have your man fucked by another man you need to prepare him booth mentally and physically and this means starting him out with a finger and getting him to orgasm while he is being penetrated. Gradually increase the number of fingers and then introduce a vibrator and start talking about other men fucking him as you bring him to orgasm. The husband will relate being anal fucked with pleasure and his ass will get used to being used. When another man fucks him it will just be a continuation of the process and b the way this is a perfect way to make a man submissive because once he accepts being used he will accept anything you want from him.
I had thought of that at the beginning. But husband has always rejected it. And I don't know if I would do it at all. Except for the feeldoe experiment, I'm not sure if want him to develop bisexual tendencies.
once you have him broken in and used to taking it from you he will do as you wish and it will have nothing to do with bisexual but submission
I agree. Once your hubby has submitted to your pussy and strap-on, you'll have free way with that special 1:1 bull of yours.
Perhaps that was in the back of my mind somehow. But reflecting on it, I want to keep my husband fully functional as he was. I don't want to replace him completely with my black lover.
I think what happened between your husband, your bull and your husband is completely natural. The bull was physically, sexually and mentally dominant. First he breeded you and then he needed to spread his offspring in your husband. In this way he established his kingdom in your home. Your husband also needed to feel him and recieve his seeds because he needed the bull's strength which he didn't have. The bull made your husband feel safe and comfortable.
You also needed your bull to breed your husband because you chosed your alpha male and you made the bull your man officially by letting him breed your husband.
We don't meet at home. But there is a bit of truth in most parts of this. Husband travels a lot lately, and I feel comfortable at my new bull's home.
No one “becomes bi”, just like being gay or straight it’s a part of their nature. The operative here is that they REALIZE they are bi.
Maybe they’ve suppressed it. Maybe they’ve had deep secret fantasies about it they’ve never revealed. Maybe they have internalized homophobia so much that they’ve grown to hate that part of themselves so much that, when they realize it, they have an internal emotional struggle that can damage relationships and even themselves. Or.......they’ve kept it secret and when they have a safe place to act on it they are thrilled and elated by it. However it happens and you learn that this part of your husband exists, just know that it was always there.
As for all these people calling you bad or crying *******, they just don’t understand the meaning of a safe word. Dudes.....a safe word is supposed to be a word you would NEVER say in a sexual or BDSM context. This allows you to go into an edgy fantasy like this and be able to say “No No No”, to be able to dive into the whole scenario. We have to take the OP at her word that there was a safe word, that the hubby prepped his ass for fucking, and that since he never safeworded, he was participating fully in the activities.
Now, if he didn’t safeword when he really should have that’s on him. Maybe he thought he should go through with it to please her. Maybe he was afraid of ruining the evening. For whatever reason the safeword never was uttered, and THAT means that this was categorically NOT *******.
Sure, the hubby might be having some internal turmoil that manifests itself in performance issues and withdrawal. That will work itself out if they have a loving relationship where he can eventually get past it. This couple and the people in it have some emotional work to do.
Basically this seems to boil down to a scene that didn’t exactly match the fantasy for the hubby, and for that reason alone the OP should be questioning the whole thing until they (the couple themselves and NO ONE ELSE) can understand what went askew and how to move forward.
And, unless the Bull is a part of their relationship in a polyamorous triad, who gives a flying fuck how he feels about it? One would hope that he’s a decent enough individual that he would at least care how the hubby is doing, because would effect his access to the wife.
By saying home, I meant family. I wanted to say he dominates your family now.
Yes, in a way, that's true. But he doesn't have any control over what I do with my other bull.
The interesting thing is that you give in your body to stranger and stronger men and also you lead your husband to the same path. You turned him to a baby. You have your men. All what you need is a baby from your bulls.
All the men submit to you and share you and the Bull is just as bi as the husband since he is fucking a man and letting a man service him. Dominant women often encourage all the men they have to act out bisexually since it gives her more control over them. After the bull fucks the husband he has put himself in an akward position since he has acted bi for a woman, total submission
whiteknight4QofS
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Housewifenheat, has your whiteboi hubby had his sweet cheeks ****** open and impaled with BBC yet?
Update: Husband's exp did not seem to have much impact on his libido. He had been fucking a female coworker for fun, while he was sending me to my black lover. Now, that we had a break from this lifestyle, he is not only very active in bed, but suggesting I may see black men again.
In retrosprective, I don't feel so guilty anymore. I always thought, why should I be the only spouse getting 'impaled by black cock', as someone said, for the enjoyment of the other half?
In retrosprective, I don't feel so guilty anymore. I always thought, why should I be the only spouse getting 'impaled by black cock', as someone said, for the enjoyment of the other half?
friend1968
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His love and devotion to you comes first. Tell him you love him and you feel both of you must surrender to your bull. When you are intimate with hubby remind him of that and reward him while doing it. He will grow to love it and to please you while doing it.
I don't think he's interested in sharing my experience or to submit in any other form, that is, in case I ever go back to my black lovers.
It was like that while we were in this milieu. My goal was to surrender together to my black bull. But now we have been counseling because his / our obsession with sex.
Lovely. It must have been a magical night for all four of you.
How does your husband feel about this now?
