My wife says she doesn’t like porn at all but there have been times like the very first one (was IR with Sean Michaels) she agreed to watch (she was complaining through the door to our den that it was “weird” for me to watch a porno by myself but she said she never wanted to watch one, I told her she could either come in and watch with me or go somewhere else and give me some privacy, she chose to watch with me) where she came while watching it with me rubbing her clit. On a few occasions I have came early during sex and she used a BBC toy on herself while watching the IR porn I was playing to get herself off. But she has to already be horny/loosened up to get to that point (except the first time). She has a lot of sexual thoughts, desires etc that she keeps buried down. It’s been a chore to get her past her Catholic/strict parental upbringing and past her inhibitions, guilt etc. but when she does get past that we have so much fun and she cums really hard. We will be going to a sex therapist (not for the purpose of her doing my fantasy in real life but just so she can let go of her guilt and just freely express herself and not see sex as a shameful thing) I’m excited because I love my wife and I just want to play and have fun with her.
Anyway, my question, for any wives, regardless of upbringing, did you start out really opposed to porn but warmed up or has it remained not your cup of tea? If your opinion/taste changed on porn to really getting turned on by it, what brought that about? Watching the right kind? You started in the lifestyle which freed up your mind to enjoy things like porn you were always told was bad or only trashy women liked it? Or your partner had you watch it with them and you grew to enjoy it? Or, something else? Thanks.
Anyway, my question, for any wives, regardless of upbringing, did you start out really opposed to porn but warmed up or has it remained not your cup of tea? If your opinion/taste changed on porn to really getting turned on by it, what brought that about? Watching the right kind? You started in the lifestyle which freed up your mind to enjoy things like porn you were always told was bad or only trashy women liked it? Or your partner had you watch it with them and you grew to enjoy it? Or, something else? Thanks.