I think most hotwifes are made not born. If I’m into black men or other men I’m never going to date you in the first place. But if I really like/love you and that’s what you are into then because it’s not a terribly bad offer I might indulge your kink and get some great sex for myself all the while pleasing my man. Then it becomes a win win and there are only a small percentage of ppl who will be into it and an extremely super small percent of ppl who want to start a relationship as swingers, it’s just not the type of foundation most ppl want to build of off