Any ideas... Please help.

[davismatt200]

me and my gf would like to spice up our relationship and I have always wanted to watch her with a black man. How should I approach the situation without it being weird or anything. I know she has been with a black man before but this is something I want to try with her and I believe we would both enjoy it. P.S. what if she enjoys it too much... I’m just confused and would like to know other people’s thoughts and opinions

 

[KRG]

Talk to her? If you are both in agreement that you want some spice then it should be a short path to discussing each of your potential fantasies.

I would suggest laying down a ground rule that regardless of how “out there” your potential fantasies are, that you both agree not to judge but to listen to what each other is looking for and discuss each other’s comfort level with each fantasy/scenario/kink or whatever you want to call it.

 

[bobter65]

me and my gf would like to spice up our relationship and I have always wanted to watch her with a black man. How should I approach the situation without it being weird or anything. I know she has been with a black man before but this is something I want to try with her and I believe we would both enjoy it. P.S. what if she enjoys it too much... I’m just confused and would like to know other people’s thoughts and opinions

go for it I did best thing ever

 

[Atxbruh]

Communication is key. It's best to have a conversation about wants and desires and see how you can both help each other towards them. If you both have similar views on the matter it should be okay. It's also important to share real concerns and fears and establish ground rules.

 

[Miamicouple]

me and my gf would like to spice up our relationship and I have always wanted to watch her with a black man. How should I approach the situation without it being weird or anything. I know she has been with a black man before but this is something I want to try with her and I believe we would both enjoy it. P.S. what if she enjoys it too much... I’m just confused and would like to know other people’s thoughts and opinions

I am assuming that when you say “What if she likes it too much?”. That you mean, she might want to leave you??? If you are serious about this and that is the case! That is not a good sign. You need a pretty solid relationship to handle something like this! Be careful. Good luck!!!
Linda

 

[MagicMikeATX]

me and my gf would like to spice up our relationship and I have always wanted to watch her with a black man. How should I approach the situation without it being weird or anything. I know she has been with a black man before but this is something I want to try with her and I believe we would both enjoy it. P.S. what if she enjoys it too much... I’m just confused and would like to know other people’s thoughts and opinions

You're probably the 500th guy to ask this. There are entire threads dedicated to this very question. There's no real 'advice' other than do whatever you two want to DO sexually, TOGETHER.
If you're not talking about it openly, it ain't happening.

 

[davismatt200]

Update: Thanks for all the advice. I talked to her about bringing other people into our relationship and she said she would be fine with us experimenting with a couple, I asked if she would go for a interracial couple and she said she just didn’t know if she was ready to have another black man because the last hurt her. Since I opened the door and kinda already have my foot in there any ideas how to warm her up to having sex with a black man. P.S. We have just started watching interracial porn together and I have been making comments of how much the female looks to be enjoying it.

 

[mlaws]

Get her a BBC dildo!

 

[footfetish]

You're probably the 500th guy to ask this. There are entire threads dedicated to this very question.

Do you have a link to the main thread?