MidwestMr&Mrs
Couple
Just tell her when you and your wife are in private. But you have to tell her, because this is 100% trust. If you dont trust your wife with this then you're not ready and neither is your marriage.
Any ideas how I can verbally express to my white wife I want her to start fucking a black man?
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MidwestMr&Mrs
Couple
I'll admit was totally caught off guard when my husband just put it out there. I had been dropping hints for years and then one weekend when we were out of town he just came right out and told me he thought it would be hot to allow me to fuck black men. It took 9 years for him to say that so I knew that the trust he put in me at that moment was great and I love him for it.
Glad i found this thread. Going thru same thing. We hav been watching porn lately and its become at her request. I keep it on ir as long as possible. She says how are thier cocks so big. I tell her like she didnt know they are. I let it go and let her ponder a bit as i finger her. She loves that the most. Very very slow but im hopeful
MidwestMr&Mrs
Couple
If shes already making suggestions and comments about their cocks then Id venture to say shes fishing for an answer from you or trying to hint that she wants to talk about doing this. Just ask her if shed like to be shared with one next time. For us it was my dildos that got him to come out and just talk about it. He knew I was enjoying them and when he asked me if I liked being fucked by my big dildos I told him the only thing better would be the real thing and that was his que to ask me if I wanted to try some real black cock and he did just that. She wants it I can tell you that and shes just waiting on you to bring it up.
YungBull221
Couple
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Jellycapone
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We watched IR porn together for the first time last night after all the dirty talk with using black dildos etc . I sent her a gif of a black cock in a white pussy she text me back saying she don't like it I was abit confused because the progress we been making . She said you actually really want to see me with a black cock don't you? I said yeah it's my fantasy . Later that night. She was like show me the porn that turns you on and she was literally soaking wet like stringing from her pussy like I never seen before and I was like I thought you don't like bbc and she was like well if it turns you on then it turns me on but I dnt like bbc 
by that time we was still laying there and I was like well what if you end up liking it and she said that's what you want thought isn't it ? I said yeah and she said well then ? At this point I was confused so I just put a video on of a white women riding a black cock whilst I was fucking her doggy and she said to me mm do you like that I said yeah I said do you and she was like yeah that turns me on look at the way she's riding him . The video finished it was only a 3 min clip. She said put another one on I like it . Am I bad ? I was so turned on and then that finished and I said you choose and she picked a bbc video on pornhub ! Then we watched a gangbang it was so hot ! Then after she said she loved it she was so turned on we ended up fucking twice watching IR that night . The next morning she woke up with me and said that was naughty last night wasn't it. We going to hotel next weekend we are taking our black dildo it's going to be interesting what she speaks to me like with it now we did this . I'm kind of glad I fully opened up . She knew I was always into the fantasy but not that much. The crazy thing is she said to me your gonna end up making me like it though aren't you. You always get what you want ! So she must like it but won't admit to me . I will keep you all posted !
by that time we was still laying there and I was like well what if you end up liking it and she said that's what you want thought isn't it ? I said yeah and she said well then ? At this point I was confused so I just put a video on of a white women riding a black cock whilst I was fucking her doggy and she said to me mm do you like that I said yeah I said do you and she was like yeah that turns me on look at the way she's riding him . The video finished it was only a 3 min clip. She said put another one on I like it . Am I bad ? I was so turned on and then that finished and I said you choose and she picked a bbc video on pornhub ! Then we watched a gangbang it was so hot ! Then after she said she loved it she was so turned on we ended up fucking twice watching IR that night . The next morning she woke up with me and said that was naughty last night wasn't it. We going to hotel next weekend we are taking our black dildo it's going to be interesting what she speaks to me like with it now we did this . I'm kind of glad I fully opened up . She knew I was always into the fantasy but not that much. The crazy thing is she said to me your gonna end up making me like it though aren't you. You always get what you want ! So she must like it but won't admit to me . I will keep you all posted !Great. Very happy for u. Hope i can get that luckyWe watched IR porn together for the first time last night after all the dirty talk with using black dildos etc . I sent her a gif of a black cock in a white pussy she text me back saying she don't like it I was abit confused because the progress we been making . She said you actually really want to see me with a black cock don't you? I said yeah it's my fantasy . Later that night. She was like show me the porn that turns you on and she was literally soaking wet like stringing from her pussy like I never seen before and I was like I thought you don't like bbc and she was like well if it turns you on then it turns me on but I dnt like bbc
readywife35
Female
Your advice is excellent...
way to get goin, i like the way U think, id like 2 learn more of U n wife, every week goes by is several 'missed' adventures..
plezrnpain
Couple
Marriage is hard, and requires a ton of work on both sides. There are always going to be fights, pain, inconvenience, anger, resent, and etc in any relationship. The great marriages, and even friendships survive because both parties are unified on long-term goals of the relationship, and they find ways to get around the crashes and roadblocks to keep on course.
First of all, always treat your wife like a queen, shower her with love, understanding, complete and open honesty, respect, gifts, complements--she must always know, and more importantly feel that she is indispensable to you, that you cherish her above any and all else. This is not an occasional thing, this has to be your lifetime goal and ultimate pursuit. Your wife should not just be your companion, she should be your best friend, your lover, your best half, your dream.
The key to what you ask is, get your relationship to an honesty and trust level where you can discuss anything, and I mean anything!, without feeling embarrassed or regretful. If you're not at that point, you first have to work to get there.
Ultimately, outside relationships should not be sought as a crutch to hold up a marriage, they should only be used to add spice, intrigue, and shared adventure to your lives and marriage.
readywife35
Female
i am wrestling with that also
^ this exactly.
Really?
