"I know porn girls that left their man because they fell in love with black dick during a scene"
- Melissa
Honestly that is so hot. I'm wondering if any of you guys know any examples of female pornstars (or amatuer examples) leaving their boyfriends because the BBC is just so good.
Hope this does not get off topic.
Speaking for amateurs/white husbands only. I never considered that risk in all of this. After I got up the nerve to tell wife my I had fantasies of her sleeping with hung black men as I watched my first concern was she was going to divorce my ass for crossing the line and being weird in general. At first she was shocked then she said it is a nice fantasy but you know I can't do that. After more talking and watching a few interracial cuckold videos she became receptive to the idea, but her main concern is me getting jealous of watching her with a well hung black man.
Anyhoo, we have not done anything yet but I never really considered she might leave me in all of this because she "fell in love with big black dick" although she admits she
really admires the black men in the videos who are well endowed.
I imagine things would have to
really go sideways where my wife found a black lover she was really attracted to, well endowed, and so good in bed that she would ever imagine leaving me because the sex was so good.. One thing that hits close to home in this thread is my wife admitted that
prior to me bringing up my fantasies to her she used to work closely with this older attractive tall muscular black guy at the casino who she said would have been perfect for us as a couple.
She conveniently never mentioned him to me but admitted they flirted with each other on occasion and that she had a "thing" for him where she thought about what it would be like to have sex with him because he was black and very tall and according to my wife she had heard from another woman he was a casanova in bed. She told me this went on for quite some time until he quit for another job and that she said she never acted on her feelings for him that it was all just an "innocent" thing. Doesn't sound innocent really but I digress. I was both stunned and oddly excited hearing her tell me about him and her.
I guess my point is, if my wife could go around having those types of emotions about this black guy whom she worked with then she obviously was "cheating" on me emotionally with a black man, but these emotions were for this one black man in particular who made an emotional connection with her and I know for my wife that is very important. I can only imagine had my wife known about my fantasies earlier and she had chosen him as a lover the emotions surging through her as they had sex would have been more than just sex and I would have been clueless.
Once I opened the door to inviting a third party into our relationship with the intention of sexual experimentation there are variables and risks involved. I never even considered those variables and risks and the emotional fallout that might come with having my wife take a black man as a lover but looking back on her feelings for this guy she worked with it definitely makes me wonder just how risky this all is, and this is coming from a very happily married couple.
Sorry about being long winded. I'm repeating what happened almost verbatim and it got rather lengthy