Advice wife to black

A little about us, we have been together for 20 years, married ten and two *******. Over a period out sex life had become very inactive, going weeks and weeks with out anything. I have always had a longing for her to try a black cock!!! So I went ahead and order a 9 inch life like black toy, well how things have changed, now the sex is very regular, I have kept my white dick out of her, and she seems very happy to have the toy bring her to orgasm, which I must admit she is probably having the best I have seen. Now she is attractive but always been quite shy and reserved. So I also bought her a sexy bodysuit, now she would normally never wear this always PJ’s for bed etc, I’m seeing some amazing changes in he sexually etc since introducing the black toy, but she is adamant she would never go for real black. Is this normal at first, have other wives said this and then after a while realise they crave a real black cock, is she slowly being trained for black and it is just progression? I’d love to her from some experienced bulls or BBC wives.
 
I'm not a BBC bull, just an older white male with a live in girlfriend that has been living with me in a sexless relationship for over 10 years because of my inability to perform, ED. She had a brief relationship with another man about a year after her husbands death but has been with me since.
I recently bought a couple of black dildos, one is 8", the other is just over 6", which is about all she can comfortably handle. We have been playing with them regularly and she is really having some very good orgasms, like never before.
We've had a good, open conversation about our sexual interest. She is aware of me being bi sexual and is fine with it, even suggested I have a guy over to visit. I have also discussed my interest in her having sex with another man while I'm present and she has agreed to that also.
I haven't mentioned that I would like for him to be a black man but I'm thinking she may be aware of my interest because of the black dildos. She was in New Orleans last May and mentioned seeing a black stripper perform but I haven't questioned her about that yet. I'm planning on talking to her about all of my interests when we are in our next sexual play session. We've both been really busy lately and no fun but are both ready for our next play session.
 
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A little about us, we have been together for 20 years, married ten and two *******. Over a period out sex life had become very inactive, going weeks and weeks with out anything. I have always had a longing for her to try a black cock!!! So I went ahead and order a 9 inch life like black toy, well how things have changed, now the sex is very regular, I have kept my white dick out of her, and she seems very happy to have the toy bring her to orgasm, which I must admit she is probably having the best I have seen. Now she is attractive but always been quite shy and reserved. So I also bought her a sexy bodysuit, now she would normally never wear this always PJ’s for bed etc, I’m seeing some amazing changes in he sexually etc since introducing the black toy, but she is adamant she would never go for real black. Is this normal at first, have other wives said this and then after a while realise they crave a real black cock, is she slowly being trained for black and it is just progression? I’d love to her from some experienced bulls or BBC wives.
She will fuck who she wants when she wants to. As to understanding the mind of a woman it isn't going to happen. The only men that understand women are delusional because they just thinking the way their wife/girlfriend wants them to. The first thing you need to do is sit down with her and put the cards on the table. Believe it or not not every white woman in the world wants to be fucked by a big black cock. If she is shy an environment where she is anonymous might be beneficial, but remember the choice must be hers. See if she is interested in attending a swingers club. It's a nice low pressure way to get your feet wet. A nice Caribbean vacation could provide good opportunities
 
I think things are quite normal. My wife was same ... saying black guys are not her thing only week ago... she fucked one last night
Homemade IR porn helps ...she will get curious and envy the other woman
 
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