might I suggest you attend one of the Club M4 BBC parties. They are held every month, the 3rd Saturday from 3 pm to 7 pm. Yes there is a cover charge, however it is worth it. Know more than a few couples who attend to find ones like your self. That a few introduction cards. Include, Name, cell number, and or email. You can make them up on a computer and printer. Staples has special card stock That comes with down loadable programs to create and print.