23m with a 19f gf new here & curious, she doesnt know
- Thread starter Mrvegeta
- Start date
Tips for? Getting started? First part is discussing it with her. Ease into it, drop hints.
You've gotta get a sense of what she enjoys and both have to have a sense to explore new things.
You've gotta get a sense of what she enjoys and both have to have a sense to explore new things.
Mrvegeta
Male
I will give this a go, thank you guys, really wanna get her into it.
Go slow, incorporate toys, pillow talk, etc.
There's zero guarantee she'll be into it. There's no one for all. You have to express your openness and ultimately ensure a secure relationship with good communication and trust. So much could go wrong.
Ours started by watching porn, I let her pick with zero judgment something she usually watched which was bbc porn, things kinda went naturally from there.
MattSmith25815
Male
Lots of really good advice here so far. You definitely have to take things very slowly and let things naturally go from there. Watching IR porn together is a great way to start. You will learn a lot just by her reaction to it. Point out things like how amazing the skin color contrast is. After watching, I would wait a couple weeks and see if she brings it up. Best time to bring things up is during foreplay, and when she is super horny… tipsy helps too!
ellythesweety
Female
Strongly agree with this lol
