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Micah - just keep talking and reassuring him....it will happen.
He LOVES watching cuckold porn together. The dildo is a great idea.
i am going to follow this thread! Same boat
He wants it more than he knows. He's in a bit of denial right now. Keep this subject at the forefront of your conversations, he'll give in.
As the hubby here, I will say that if he has reservations, just assure him that you love him above all and this is an experience that both will enjoy. It was my idea so I did the coaxing but being on the hubby's point of view, he needs to be assured and feel like you are wanting it for the both of your enjoyment. You can let him feel like he's in control by helping to pick your partner. I would personally recommend communicating with guys who are respectful and understand that this is a new and extremely sensitive level to your marriage, not some guy that's all forward" yes! I will fuck your slut wife and make that bitches pussy mine!" Sounds crazy but that's what we came up against right out of the box. I have to admit I was all for it LOL but she didn't like his attitude.
Above all there has to be a level of trust that you are doing it not only for your enjoyment but for his as well. As mentioned above. Baby steps and continue with the pillow talk.
There are plenty of guys out there and on this website who are good with first timers. Non-pushy but confident, alpha males who will rock your world. If you were in S TX I have a few guys that I would recommend. I've introduced a couple of wives who weren't interested in BBC to our contacts and now that's what they prefer. Go figure
If you hubby has any direct questions, feel free to inbox me and I will be happy to help in anyway I can.
Above all there has to be a level of trust that you are doing it not only for your enjoyment but for his as well. As mentioned above. Baby steps and continue with the pillow talk.
There are plenty of guys out there and on this website who are good with first timers. Non-pushy but confident, alpha males who will rock your world. If you were in S TX I have a few guys that I would recommend. I've introduced a couple of wives who weren't interested in BBC to our contacts and now that's what they prefer. Go figure
If you hubby has any direct questions, feel free to inbox me and I will be happy to help in anyway I can.
Keep talking to him. From the posts, it appears he does have interest. It's not like you want it and he does not.
You may need to find a way to start it slowly, in a way that he is comfortable with. Maybe go to a bar or club, either find someone there, or a pre-arranged meet. Maybe start with something slow, like all three of you go out to your car, and you simply provide oral sex to a black man while he watches, nothing else. Then, talk about it...outside of bed, inside of bed. See if that excited him, or scared him.
If you love him, and value your relationship more than the urge, go slow in a way that keeps him engaged, but does not turn him away, or makes him leave you.
EDIT: Let me add a couple of things. Someone else mentioned a black dildo. That is a VERY good idea. Get him where he likes the visual of a black cock going into you. For a lot of guys, one concern is that they like this idea, but they don't want to lose you to this lifestyle. There are stories here, some very lurid (some likely fake, too) about white males who wanted their wives to get into this, then they went "black cock crazy" and dropped their husband. Gotta take it slow and easy.
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Yes. Baby steps. No need to rush anything. Dildo play is a good start for both. Try just meeting some black guys and no sex. Get an idea of who the "right" guy would be for both of you. Then find Mr Right and have a few dates but no sex. Mr Right will play along. Mr Wrong will not waste his time. When everyone is comfortable. Move on with some short duration sex. An hour or two then he leaves. When this becomes comfortable, make it last longer but no overnight. Keep making these small incremental steps to expand things. Good Luck
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Start out watching interracial sex movies.....introduce a black dildo into your sexual activites
have him use the sex toy on you then have him sit and watch you pleasure yourself while describing/talking about how good it feels then wonder out loud how good a real one will feel.....it may take a few times but I think he will come around
have him use the sex toy on you then have him sit and watch you pleasure yourself while describing/talking about how good it feels then wonder out loud how good a real one will feel.....it may take a few times but I think he will come around
we are a couple. I m the bf. Me and my gf had some doubts at the start, but, when we tried...she 'falls in love' of her black bull, and i loved to watch them fuck in front of me... they fucked hours, sweet and then hard... wow! it's a beautiful rxperience!
if your bf likes it in fantasy, when he watch you with your bbc, he became hard
if your bf likes it in fantasy, when he watch you with your bbc, he became hard
Isnt it amazing! Countless guys trying to convince their wives to go Black and also women wanting it but struggling to make hubby agree.
It should be in a first date questionnaire shouldnt it! LOL
If you guys are fantasising about it, then one of you needs to take the upper hand and make it happen. You two are scared to push eachother and the irony is, that is exactly what you both need. Hence the benefit of a dominant Black Bull in your relationship.
Ask him things like..... if i were to fuck a Black guy, would you prefer to watch or prefer i make you wait at home????
And..... if we find a Black guy we both like on social dates can we just try a threesome once to see if we both like it???
Figure out if hes the do as his told type or if he wants full involvement. Or if he wants something in the middle.
By asking posiitive option questions yoi are not saying shall we or shall we not. You are deternining how it should work for you both. And by doing this you are building confidence and realistic thoughts in both of your minds.
Good luck
It should be in a first date questionnaire shouldnt it! LOL
If you guys are fantasising about it, then one of you needs to take the upper hand and make it happen. You two are scared to push eachother and the irony is, that is exactly what you both need. Hence the benefit of a dominant Black Bull in your relationship.
Ask him things like..... if i were to fuck a Black guy, would you prefer to watch or prefer i make you wait at home????
And..... if we find a Black guy we both like on social dates can we just try a threesome once to see if we both like it???
Figure out if hes the do as his told type or if he wants full involvement. Or if he wants something in the middle.
By asking posiitive option questions yoi are not saying shall we or shall we not. You are deternining how it should work for you both. And by doing this you are building confidence and realistic thoughts in both of your minds.
Good luck
Yes. BBC very popular now and the wives do enjoy fucking the black men. Many white couples here have expanded and improved their sex lives with young BBC studs.
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We were in our late 50's when we began the fantasizing/talking about it . . . we did of the things mentioned here--pics, vids, black dildo, voyeurism, hand job and finally oral a couple of times before the first penetration. They journey was arousing and when we were ready, we were ready! Now we want more and more.