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It's truly stunning to me how negative and hurtful some ppl can be in the responses here, but this is the society we live in today. Ppl just assume the worst in everyone and are quick to judge and throw shade. I do appreciate those here who've helped me through this process here and privately...

A simplified dissolution of the marriage was filed. With an uncontested divorce where all parties agree, it can happen in as soon as 30 days in the State of Florida. We also had a written marital settlement agreement filed prior to the hearing. We went to our hearing, and the judge asked the...

No minor children and a home with a mortgage. The house was deeded to us both but I alone am on the mortgage. She gave up her claim to half the house's equity in exchange for an uncontested divorce. She didn't seek alimony. We had little savings, which we split equally, so not much to argue...

In Florida, an uncontested divorce can happen in as soon as 30 days.

Be very careful. Mine left me for her bull and we are now divorced. This can ruin even the best of marriages.

So, I am now officially a divorced man. I went into divorce hearing devastated and heartbroken, and left angry and disgusted. My whore ex wife showed up with her lover, and not once did she ever acknowledge me. Then when the judge ruled the marriage was dissolved, her POS lover pulled her into a...

Is anyone awake? I could really use an ear. Cannot sleep and have been crying most of the evening. Tomorrow morning is the divorce hearing. I am going alone, and don't know how I will react when all this goes down. I am trying very hard to keep my composure.

Pretty rough day anticipating tomorrow, our first Thanksgiving apart from each other in almost 20 years. I did receive the court date to go before the judge. Next Tuesday, November 27th, so pending no issues with the hearing, I should be a divorced man in a few days. Still hard to wrap my hands...

I really resent your comment, given everything I have been through and will continue to go through. Dont assume a person isn't telling the truth, especially given the fact that you don't know the person. I have no reason to lie, and believe me, I would much prefer this be a fantasy, as opposed...

I want to thank everyone here for being an outlet for me during this painful process. Yes, some probably think I am crazy airing my personal business here, in a public forum for all to see but it has been helpful to me, and I appreciate all the ppl who reached out privately. I also think it's...

Just received the hearing date from the court for simplified, uncontested dissolution of our marriage. Tuesday, November 20th we go before the judge and it should be final. Cannot believe how quickly my entire life has turned upside down. Yes, I agreed to this in part because she made it clear...

So, I receive a text message just a minute ago from an unknown number I am not familiar with telling me to cease contact with my wife or an order of protection will be filed against me. Cease contact? My wife has refused to see me since our initial talk and now that I am back in the house, our...

I knew in my heart something was up during those 6 months. I realize now I was living in denial. She never once allowed me to touch her during that time. This is a woman I'd been having sex with since I was a teenager.

I know full well I screwed up and trust me, I blame myself daily and I am suffering because of it. And another thing, why does your profile say you're female?

I I appreciate your words, and I did ask her if she was pregnant by him and she said No, but she wouldn't give me a direct answer as to why she wanted to divorce so quick other than to say she is ready to move on with her life. I have decided that once everything is final, I will be selling...

She is, IMO, a beautiful woman. She educated, takes care of herself, and is educated and intelligent. Why man wouldn't want something like that?

I appreciate everyone taking the time to reach out and give such detailed advice. I spent a week away from this site and the internet in general to give myself some time to really think about how things went wrong. The bottom line is simple. We have spent our entire adult lives together and only...

I want to thank everyone, especially those who took the time to reach out to me via private message. I am still having a hard time coming to terms with this, and will be seeking out professional help. I did pack a bag and leave the home. I am currently at a hotel. I have decided to take some...

Not at the expense of my marriage.

Sad beyond words. I will be seeking out therapy as a means to deal with this. I am not hateful or angry. If anything, I blame myself. I am not only going to lose my wife of 2 years, I am going to lose someone I have known and been with since I was 17 years old. (half my life). She loves him and...