I guess as long as you made that clear before marriage or even before the relationship turned serious then it's fine otherwise if my wife gave me that line and we didn't discuss anything beforehand I would say ok fine, I'll have a lawyer serve you with papers and we'll go our own separate ways.
I'm open minded but if she did things behind my back then it's over, right then and there. Like I said I'm open minded but it needs to be all discussed before hand.
THIS ^^^^ and this is one of the main reasons to be honest and open to your partner instead of sneaking around. It's one thing to get pissed because you got cheated on behind your back, it's a higher degree if the above happened and you caught an STD as a result from your partner's infidelity
The best top tip is if she rejects you for whatever reason let it go, if you persist and she gets tired of it then she will have a legitimate HR complaint especially if she has evidence like texts and emails.
This is why I keep work and pleasure separate, there are some female colleagues who I would love to shack up with but in the end my job's more important because I need something to cover the bills.
I own my house and such so if I do get married down the road and she cheats behind my back she will pack up her stuff and leave that same night whether she wants to or not. I'm fully open to swinging and whatnot but we have to be open and honest with each other.
In general I noticed that white men are preferred in those regions just like how black men are preferred by many white women and so on. Different strokes for different folks, same can even be noticed in porn. When talking about the huge amount of BBC to white women porn BBC to Asian women porn...
I think a lot of them are also just spewing a fantasy from the men side and the women are actually doing this behind the guy's backs, I know this is an extreme forum but I think that some of this is too extreme even for that.
That's where discussions and boundaries need to be drawn before anything takes place, if a guy is into watching his lady getting fucked but is not into the humiliation aspect then he needs to be upfront and make it known.
Each to their own and if that work for you then more power to you but it doesn't work for me. I tried swinging with an ex GF and after awhile she wanted less and less physical intimacy with me. I eventually became uninterested and told her either we go back to the way we used to be or this is...
This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.