i hear ya tracy... the wife and i do not like REAL pain, just the playful kind (which can be severe swats on the ass etc) but nothing that leaves *******! i feel sorry for that girl. was she asking him to stop? that couldn't have been professional porn...could it? sex is for fun, plain and simple. if it is fun, then do it!
By the way, did you get a good pounding Friday? you sounded excited in anticipation!!