Recent content by Steve Dedalus

She says she doesn't have fantasies. (We've been married for six years, together for twelve...so I'm inclined to believe her.). But she isn't turned off by the idea, although I think she might be a little bit intimidated.

She knows about the fantasy. We've discussed it, played with toys, watched porn. That's about it though. That's about it though. Trying to push it to the next level.

I think safety might be the most significant thing. Also, I think she's reluctant to see sex as just sex. I'm trying to encourage slow steps -- online chatting, drinks, etc. A long run-up to the sex itself.

What have you been successful with in the past at convincing an attractive woman to get into the lifestyle?

Hello everyone! MWC from Baltimore here. Wife is reluctant but entertaining my fantasy. Here looking for helpful ideas to turn her on.