Recent content by ShySummer

Just to be clear, yeah. I'm not going to be posting here anymore. I wasn't really getting the kind of advice or attention I wanted and I'm not interested in pursuing this any further. At least, not in the way I was planning to.

I used to suck a dildo while he fucked me but we haven't been doing that for a while, mostly just because we've been too busy for sex. He always seemed to like it.

I might try this, even if it's just mentioning the idea. Probably best to work up to it pretending with a dildo, that way I can get a feel for how he handles "sharing" me.

I know well enough to disregard the whole "Give in to your desires you were meant for black cock" mindset. Responses like yours and a few others are more what I'm wanting to hear. Fair, unbiased views of what this is like. No offense to all the people trying to justify the stereotypes but I...

Its safe to assume that when a white guy is attracted to black girls, he's thinking of the big booty curvaceous stereotype. I've gotten mixed signals about the inverse: some are just happy with any white girl, some like tall girls with big asses and tits, some are into tiny girls, etc. So I'm...

I'm always hearing or seeing posts about how sex with black guys (or even girls) is so much better than with white guys but I can't help but feel skeptical. I know a lot of the appeal of this lifestyle is the allure and the fetishization of black people as sexual champions, but is there really a...

I agree, I didn't mean to imply that I'd go out and cheat without him knowing. More that I'd expect him to take me being with another person (with his consent) to still be cheating in a sense.

I appreciate the advice!

Lol, good idea

I could try it, any suggestions though if it does go wrong?

I think that your suggestion could work. I'm just worriedly about what could happen if it doesn't and he takes it like an insult or that kind of thing.

That could work, but I think telling him to try dating other people might give him the wrong idea.

We've played around with pretending a dildo was another guy but there's always been a sort of unspoken rule that it's only okay because it's not real. That's what's causing all the anxiety, tbh

My boyfriend of three years has no idea that I've even considered being with another person, and I'm honestly afraid that telling him would ruin our relationship. Does anyone have any advice on how to ease into telling him and where to go from there? I'm 20, he's 21, and a few people we knew...

Thanks everyone!