Recent content by Sands1984

Work. After months of pursuing me, I ran out of no’s. :)

Long term, for me. It’s how I’m wired. I’m a one man woman...errrr...two man woman. :) Also, I think long term makes the sex better...again, for me. I like to learn what makes a lover love better...it helps me love better. Getting to know each other’s bodies and turn ons just makes the sex...

Great answers by all! Nothing more needs to be said!!!

I still have sex often with my husband. It’s not the same, for sure...but i still enjoy it. Sex isn’t just physical, as any fetish tells you...its also highly emotional. For me, its about expressing my love for him...and its ONE of the best way i can express it.

Thanks for the follow!

I love him completely. I hurt him by going behind his back with my first black lover. It was hard, but we were able to work it out and now we are stronger for it. He was upset...obviously...but it didn’t make him insecure. Over time we were able to dissect the why’s of why I did it. He now...

I was 31 he was 49

3 times a week. But he lived just a few miles from me and had a flexible work schedule. It worked perfectly for both of my relationships. Able to spend time with him during the day...and nights with my husband!

In our recent pursuits on another site, I got to know a guy I really liked. He seemingly had everything I wanted. Once we established our mutual interest in each other and started talking over the phone he started asking about the possibility of being a “live in”...before he even met us. I told...

Hope everyone has a fantastic day and I shall see you again!

Loved every word. This is my (our) second day on B2W and that was such an encouraging post. I have also lived in the shoes of these words. My first experience with interracial sex was with a “secret lover” and we both objectified each other. He had the “fantasy fantastical BBC” and I had the...