Recent content by NCBeachBum

It's objectifying and dehumanizing. I get why it appeals to some people in a role play.

with all due respect, this is puritanical. This kind of thinking perpetuates the notion of male ownership over women and ignores the fact that the vast majority of men cannot handle their partner having needs outside of them. 78% of women are not having orgasms with their male partners, but...

I moved from the country into the city at 11. I was always struck by the grace, ease, confidence and physicality of boys at the park playing sports. Even before I was thinking about sex, I admired their fluidity. When I started getting attention from them and thinking about sex, it was really...

did she know that back in 1987?

I would be surprised. I don't know many girls who have only ever had one lover. not everyone has 50+ but certainly 5-10 is super normal

15% of the US population is black. So, I think anyone who thinks it is lower than 15% must be proposing that it's inherently wrong for women to date outside their race. I voted 30-39% but most girls would never talk about it with a white man.

I felt him out on it. He would ask about my past a bit and always get quiet and not ask more. It was pretty clear it wasn't something he was like into. I think he had a lot of insecurity about my history and it was a fear for him. I know in some guys that fear grows into obsession but it really...

I'll keep this brief. No one wants to read a book, I'm sure. No one really reads anymore. I am 42, divorced since 2019. I started dating black guys in HS. My ex-husband is white. We got together when I was 20 after I escaped a very toxic and abusive relationship with my former bf from HS. I...

Monogamy still seems to be a bigger taboo than interracial. People cheat. get over it. Women are not property. If the husband or bf can't handle it, then why ******* him to know?

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