I get that alot....lol but carry on I shall
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I'm laughing at the thumbs down haha. But definitely appreciate the kind words. If you ever in Houston Texas and want to be part of an Oreo hit us up.Very enviousI know of 2 others like that on this site. I pray continued love and respect
Never fell in love with a playmate because I intentionally only play with women who are married and attached and are not available! Also, to do so would be a violation of the primary rule in the swing lifestyle!
There is an unwritten protocol and adequate among the Bulls and that is "we borrow, we do not take"!
.Real Bulls don't accept love and affection that it not theirs to accept! Even when a playmate loses focus because of the depth of intimacy and the quality of sexual play, a good Bull knows that he is the last line of defense and will always look out for the couple's best interest which means shutting down any offers of misfocused love and affection! Even if that means losing connection with the couple altogether!
There is an unwritten protocol and adequate among the Bulls and that is "we borrow, we do not take"!
.Real Bulls don't accept love and affection that it not theirs to accept! Even when a playmate loses focus because of the depth of intimacy and the quality of sexual play, a good Bull knows that he is the last line of defense and will always look out for the couple's best interest which means shutting down any offers of misfocused love and affection! Even if that means losing connection with the couple altogether!
Big facts here 
Wow.. I understand you're getting what you came for, as is she, but it does seem a bit empty. I guess that's what you kind of need to be able to focus on the task, which again seems rather empty. I would think the passion isn't truly passion, it's completely carnal would that be an accurate assessment?
I understand where your questions are coming from and it's understandable seeing how you view it from the outside position and not the bulls position. For you all the passion comes from the thrill of " forbidden fruit" having a black cock is for you white people and your families. So to you all it doesn't feel empty. This game of picking and choosing BBC like cattle to spice up boring marriages where weather it's the husband or the wife that isn't being sexually fulfilled with their normal sex life in the relationship.
Then there's Us who are fully aware of what it is and why you all look to fuck us so it's always empty and just sex for the most part in the way you're viewing it. Our passion comes from our aggression. That's something that is always there inside us. Just like how cuck and queen of spades couples put on their mask
for play time, as do we when we get the opportunity to defile one of you in front of your husbands and bfs worry free. So that's why it's easy to take up the position and mind frame that Jdingo mentioned because for the most part We bulls don't have a problem with not blurring the lines.
I guess for me and I only speak for myself. I'm not in the LS at all. I'm here bc I actually date and in relationships with black men. It's my preference. Now when I go to swing clubs which is more my LS I'm there for one thing and one thing only, so I understand sex without connection, but some "bulls" "couples" have the same guy it's like a regular but when the sex is now on the regular, you're in these people's lives how do you not get attached? I'm also starting to realize that just like they see "bulls" as meat, " bulls" see the white female as meat too. So I suppose it's empty from both sides. Huh.. I don't think I could do that. Even at the clubs if I see the same people over and over I change location, LOLI understand where your questions are coming from and it's understandable seeing how you view it from the outside position and not the bulls position. For you all the passion comes from the thrill of " forbidden fruit" having a black cock is for you white people and your families. So to you all it doesn't feel empty. This game of picking and choosing BBC like cattle to spice up boring marriages where weather it's the husband or the wife that isn't being sexually fulfilled with their normal sex life in the relationship.
Then there's Us who are fully aware of what it is and why you all look to fuck us so it's always empty and just sex for the most part in the way you're viewing it. Our passion comes from our aggression. That's something that is always there inside us. Just like how cuck and queen of spades couples put on their mask
I am a Bull in the swingers lifestyle and I am only here for adult fun and recreation! That's not empty!
Going to an amusement park just to enjoy the rides, the adrenaline rush, the excitement, the interaction of sharing fun and thrills with other people, is not empty! To me Going to a swingers event or meeting a hotwife couple is the same thing!
I go to share in the adult fun which is the orgasmic thrills, the pleasures, the *******, passion, the lust, the kinkiness, the naughtiness, the social whoredom and sport fucking and then go home! To me it's never been empty!
Also remember men and woman are wired differently when it comes to sex. Yes you can possibly find a guy who is in touch with his feminine side that will open up and cry with you, who was actually dating the girl he lost his virginity to, who would love to
and connect on all levels before you are intimate but that ain't me!
You're such an interesting person. I bet you have some really great stories. Thanks for explaining your experiences and how you play a role in the LS. I sometimes think a bit too much on my own perversions and like to see how others do it.I am a Bull in the swingers lifestyle and I am only here for adult fun and recreation! That's not empty!
Going to an amusement park just to enjoy the rides, the adrenaline rush, the excitement, the interaction of sharing fun and thrills with other people, is not empty! To me Going to a swingers event or meeting a hotwife couple is the same thing!
I go to share in the adult fun which is the orgasmic thrills, the pleasures, the *******, passion, the lust, the kinkiness, the naughtiness, the social whoredom and sport fucking and then go home! To me it's never been empty!
Also remember men and woman are wired differently when it comes to sex. Yes you can possibly find a guy who is in touch with his feminine side that will open up and cry with you, who was actually dating the girl he lost his virginity to, who would love to
Naw I only play with married women. So I know at the end of the night or whatever she is going her way and I'm going mine. And the fact I enjoy being single I like my alone time too. And with a married women you don't have to worry about them just popping up at your house.
I guess that makes it easy not to have any emotional attachments, bc she's already attached and is clearly only there for one thing. I just think I'm at an age where I'm getting tired of the non attachments, I can get
anywhere, but I can't get the emotional connection, maybe I'm beyond damaged/repair 
.Well my thing is I don't want them to get emotional attached too. I mean we text each other and things like that. But I have found in the pass some get too attached. And to be honest when I was younger there was a few that I started to catch feelings for. But I'm not trying or will ever wreck someone's marriage. I just want to have fun while we are together and by no means have I ever disrespect the wife or the husband.I guess that makes it easy not to have any emotional attachments, bc she's already attached and is clearly only there for one thing. I just think I'm at an age where I'm getting tired of the non attachments, I can get
do you think you're going to be forever in the lifestyle?
Zanebbc892
Male
PI'm not sure if this has been asked before, because all I ever see is what the white dudes want to have done to their wives or sister, mom, duck whatever.
SO...
I'd like to ask some questions to the beautiful men of color on this site.
Have y'all ever fell in love with a playmate? Would you leave your significant other for another that's in the LS?
Does your significant other know that you're in this LS?
**white men that can'tgo ahead and chime in, I'm sure y'all have a story.**
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amysweetgurl69
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Awww i think You’re just perfect the way You areI guess that makes it easy not to have any emotional attachments, bc she's already attached and is clearly only there for one thing. I just think I'm at an age where I'm getting tired of the non attachments, I can get
Naw I will not be getting to old for this *******. I have had great times meeting these wives but. I guess if I found someone like the one couple I was with probably would continue in the lifestyle. They where cool as hell and I was with her for 5 years. But I was in the military then and I had to change duty stations. I moved to Washington state and they were in Kentucky.
The military is known for its fuckery in more ways the one. I hope you find what you need to make your life fun and interesting
I will continue my hunt, a lioness on the prawl
I'm just not the type that likes going from couple to couple. Like to find that one where we all have something in common. I take quality or quantity
Yeah that's true.The military is known for its fuckery in more ways the one. I hope you find what you need to make your life fun and interesting
I will continue my hunt, a lioness on the prawl
amysweetgurl69
Male
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hopefully you find someone like Zane sizeThe military is known for its fuckery in more ways the one. I hope you find what you need to make your life fun and interesting
I will continue my hunt, a lioness on the prawl
