Is it feasible to "uncuckle" yourself or your relationship to where you're back to a vanilla sex life and not want another man to participate? And if so, is it a good sex life or is it lacking? Or, is (the thoughts, desires) always "there", even when you're not active in the lifestyle? Especially for the men, do you always push for it, want it, fantasize about it, in some way continue down the path of seeing your woman with another man, even to the point of it ruining your relationship? Can Pandora's Box ever be closed and sealed tight or is it forever cracked open?