Very nice to hear! Please give us some details on how it all went down. I know myself and others would love to hear the whole scenario.It went well for me when my friend did it with me! You just need to fine the right guy to fillow through!
Very nice to hear! Please give us some details on how it all went down. I know myself and others would love to hear the whole scenario.It went well for me when my friend did it with me! You just need to fine the right guy to fillow through!
Hi this is the details on how I was successful in meeting with a friend a d his wife! I hooked up with her like this! First the husband spoke with me about all the things that she likes when it comes to her men! Then we talked about what turns her on! We went over the ways she likes to flirt and how she does it! He also went over the does and don'ts! We spoke for a few days then we both devised a signal and plan to make it work. Now it must look spontanious and not scripted! You must not deviate from the plan! It would have to look like you just showen up or just met! He would give you the place and times! You must play it right and not miss your ques that you have been given! The husband gave her some story that matched and it all went well as I took over!Very nice to hear! Please give us some details on how it all went down. I know myself and others would love to hear the whole scenario.
Great thoughts on following tru there is hope. thanks for your input.Hi this is the details on how I was successful in meeting with a friend a d his wife! I hooked up with her like this! First the husband spoke with me about all the things that she likes when it comes to her men! Then we talked about what turns her on! We went over the ways she likes to flirt and how she does it! He also went over the does and don'ts! We spoke for a few days then we both devised a signal and plan to make it work. Now it must look spontanious and not scripted! You must not deviate from the plan! It would have to look like you just showen up or just met! He would give you the place and times! You must play it right and not miss your ques that you have been given! The husband gave her some story that matched and it all went well as I took over!
Has anyone staged something with a black man to hit on your white wife, her unknowing you were doing it to her and if so how did it go? I'm really trying to look into doing it to try and see my wife reaction and openess to a black man flirting and hitting on her in front of me. Ladies would you be upset if you found out later down the line your husband did this? Any aggressive Black Men open to the idea of hitting on my white wife in front of me in a bar or club in the NJ area. We are not swingers and never ventured outside of our vanilla marriage (12 years) before but trying to lead her down the path to open her mind and legs for a dominant Black Man. Please any real input or advise. I do have a few other bedroom pics .View attachment 6578506
There are videos of such situations that show the setup going terribly wrong for the boyfriend/husband. The woman may take up the offer much beyond the husband's expectations. One woman found out that it was a setup by the husband and divorced him. The idea sounds like fun but is not likely to turn out as you would like. You would be much better off bring open with her.Has anyone staged something with a black man to hit on your white wife, her unknowing you were doing it to her and if so how did it go? I'm really trying to look into doing it to try and see my wife reaction and openess to a black man flirting and hitting on her in front of me. Ladies would you be upset if you found out later down the line your husband did this? Any aggressive Black Men open to the idea of hitting on my white wife in front of me in a bar or club in the NJ area. We are not swingers and never ventured outside of our vanilla marriage (12 years) before but trying to lead her down the path to open her mind and legs for a dominant Black Man. Please any real input or advise. I do have a few other bedroom pics .View attachment 6578506
thanks for your thoughts input on this.There are videos of such situations that show the setup going terribly wrong for the boyfriend/husband. The woman may take up the offer much beyond the husband's expectations. One woman found out that it was a setup by the husband and divorced him. The idea sounds like fun but is not likely to turn out as you would like. You would be much better off bring open with her.
Has anyone staged something with a black man to hit on your white wife, her unknowing you were doing it to her and if so how did it go? I'm really trying to look into doing it to try and see my wife reaction and openess to a black man flirting and hitting on her in front of me. Ladies would you be upset if you found out later down the line your husband did this? Any aggressive Black Men open to the idea of hitting on my white wife in front of me in a bar or club in the NJ area. We are not swingers and never ventured outside of our vanilla marriage (12 years) before but trying to lead her down the path to open her mind and legs for a dominant Black Man. Please any real input or advise. I do have a few other bedroom pics .View attachment 6578506
Thanks for the great input, really felt it was a outlet to start the process but very risky as you said and also getting the right man to go along must be hard.I tried two different times with both of my former wives and it doesn’t, or didn’t work. I think the ‘suddenness’ and the ‘catching off guard’ harms the moment. If you’re not careful, you definitely run the risk of losing her trust - and that’s not easily returned.
For both my wives, I finally admitted my fantasy and was quite surprised of their response. My first wife, I was never able to watch (unfortunately) but we did have some great role play. My second wife - I was honored and thrilled to be able to have watched her with two different black men on three separate occasions; not to mention the meet up with four other black men that didn’t quite click for bedroom time.
Thanks for the great input, really felt it was a outlet to start the process but very risky as you said and also getting the right man to go along must be hard.
your rightIf you were to set it up, I would arrange the meet at a dance club and be on the dance floor with her at the time that he steps in and takes the dance from you. From this point you can continue to dance as a threesome, until you can shy away and allow them some personal space - to hope and allow the next steps.
Be very careful though. Backfire will surely mess things up and lose that trust.
Has anyone staged something with a black man to hit on your white wife, her unknowing you were doing it to her and if so how did it go? I'm really trying to look into doing it to try and see my wife reaction and openess to a black man flirting and hitting on her in front of me. Ladies would you be upset if you found out later down the line your husband did this? Any aggressive Black Men open to the idea of hitting on my white wife in front of me in a bar or club in the NJ area. We are not swingers and never ventured outside of our vanilla marriage (12 years) before but trying to lead her down the path to open her mind and legs for a dominant Black Man. Please any real input or advise. I do have a few other bedroom pics .View attachment 6578506
Great thoughtsTwo things about setting up your wife - if she finds out that it is a setup she is almost certain to be highly pissed off at you. If she accepts his advances things may go much further than you might have intended. Also, I gleaned from another post on here that it is best to set up the encounter at a time and place when you are not with her. You may be able to sneak into the establishment if you are good and remaining incognito. You will then get a better idea of how she acts when you are nowhere around - in other words, is she likely to cheat with a black man.
Have you tried telling her what you want?The thought has occurred to me many, many times. The problem is there is no creative way to set this up secretly. I am open to suggestions.59-year-old suburban wife who works part-time and goes to bars with her girlfriends. Help!
Has anyone staged something with a black man to hit on your white wife, her unknowing you were doing it to her and if so how did it go? I'm really trying to look into doing it to try and see my wife reaction and openess to a black man flirting and hitting on her in front of me. Ladies would you be upset if you found out later down the line your husband did this? Any aggressive Black Men open to the idea of hitting on my white wife in front of me in a bar or club in the NJ area. We are not swingers and never ventured outside of our vanilla marriage (12 years) before but trying to lead her down the path to open her mind and legs for a dominant Black Man. Please any real input or advise. I do have a few other bedroom pics .View attachment 6578506
Thanks for the advise, just wasent ready to say it out loudDude the best way to go about this is just tell her what you want. She will say yes she wants to do it or no it's not going to happen. Good luck finding a guy who would be willing to go along with your plan. And I'm sure if you find out you was trying to set her up she probably going to be pissed. But best of luck.
May as well so that way you know. Your not the first husband to try to go about this way and you definitely will not be the last. But I think being honest with her is the way too go.Thanks for the advise, just wasent ready to say it out loud