This is pure opinion at this point. So I respect your point of view, but I have to offer that it's not 100%. And the women you have met and connected with may constitute a small sample size, too small to call it scientific.
I am not sure how many women you have slept with, but I can say that I have slept with a variety of women, with different sizes and lengths of their vaginas, and I can say that not every woman's body is the same. Some women cannot handle intense, hard penetration from a man that large, its not comfortable, and thus not pleasurable. Women's bodies were designed to give birth, that means, the vaginal canal is meant to push a baby outward. If you have a very large and thick penis, the angle of penetration makes a huge difference, as well as the ******* of your thrust. Breeding only takes one deep thrust to provide close proximity to the Fallopian tubes in order to inseminate the egg. Repeated pounding of the cervix is not advantageous for many women. Although there is a common myth in this lifestyle that "every" woman wants her cervix pounded.
I hope we are not trying to support that myth, because it is false and very misleading for the cuckolds and men that have very little sexual experience to hear. They need to know that most women do not want to have their cervix hit repeatedly by a large, heavy penis over and over again. Its quite painful and not pleasurable at all. And for some women, their cervix is positioned to prevent penetration by a man larger than 9 inches.
If the average size of men's penises in the UK and USA are around 6 inches, the survival of the human race is dependent on women being able to be impregnated by men with penises small than 6 in many cases. There is also no valid evidence that there are racial differences in penis size. And I mean to say, significant differences. I believe I read a study, not sure of its validity, that stated that African American men had an average penis size about 6.5 inches. Which meant they are 1/2 inch larger than non-african men. This is not the myth of every black man has an overwhelmingly large penis.
But there are significant differences in the way that Hung African-American men and non-hung white men look at sex, act during sex, actually have sex. The perspectives are what attract women to the lifestyle. I have seen this, I have interviewed tons of women and couples about this perspective difference.
In my experience, married women tell me, "I love my husband, but he does not see me sexually the way I want to be seen." And when I speak with the husband, it confirms that the gentleman love their wife and thus that "love" prevents them from sexualizing their wives. And the women want to feel "sexualized" They want that overwhelming desire that comes with sexual attraction.
I am curios to hear what some of my friends on this site have to say about this topic.
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