Should i watch out for her? She flirts alot when she drinks SHE MARRIED but i think she just a cheater

[Satanic_cap]

Being a bartender ppl naturally talk to you get to know you and have some laughs But then I came to work and she was there. The funny part is her husband was the Latin guy I said hi too before I walk in ...funny and yes she was strawberry blonde and was thick af ..like no b.s . Smash all day ..but I work here I'm not looking to kick off drama so I slow my roll...but I did alot of smiling lol

So she start coming in without her husband..and I'm still smiling but then she starts crying. this goes on for many incounters she talks about who horrible her husband is . Calling her racial slurs and using her and how he cheats and what's should she do? But when her and her husband come in together they always argue she calls me at work like right after she leaves

I'm confused and honestly missed any opportunities of hooking up with her. It's been a while since she came into the bar honestly I personally thinks she get a little too ******* too often ...i trying talking about kink and maybe a Qos lifestyle but plays like she such a good girl and faithful..idk she tried opening up about sex and told me she fingers herself but quickly turn into a cry fest about her husband and what his does.
So I'm asking did I play the friend zone all wrong ? Did I the whole thing go over my head? Or did I dodge a bullet? Was she toxic and full of drama? Was she a liar? Or a Qos but havnt realized it yet ?

 

[Renton3some]

Being a bartender ppl naturally talk to you get to know you and have some laughs But then I came to work and she was there. The funny part is her husband was the Latin guy I said hi too before I walk in ...funny and yes she was strawberry blonde and was thick af ..like no b.s . Smash all day ..but I work here I'm not looking to kick off drama so I slow my roll...but I did alot of smiling lol

So she start coming in without her husband..and I'm still smiling but then she starts crying. this goes on for many incounters she talks about who horrible her husband is . Calling her racial slurs and using her and how he cheats and what's should she do? But when her and her husband come in together they always argue she calls me at work like right after she leaves

I'm confused and honestly missed any opportunities of hooking up with her. It's been a while since she came into the bar honestly I personally thinks she get a little too ******* too often ...i trying talking about kink and maybe a Qos lifestyle but plays like she such a good girl and faithful..idk she tried opening up about sex and told me she fingers herself but quickly turn into a cry fest about her husband and what his does.
So I'm asking did I play the friend zone all wrong ? Did I the whole thing go over my head? Or did I dodge a bullet? Was she toxic and full of drama? Was she a liar? Or a Qos but havnt realized it yet ?

Chances are the husband would love to watch…if it was my wife I would

 

[DuoRdyFL]

Crazy written all over it red flag alert for sure. IMO you dodged a major bullet storm.

 

[Satanic_cap]

Crazy written all over it red flag alert for sure. IMO you dodged a major bullet storm.

So the repeatly crying was the honestly it's start to feel like it's was her way of being manipulative.

 

[DuoRdyFL]

Yes no doubt the emotional outbursts and crying is a severe red flag no matter how hot a woman might be. Drama just waiting to happen and she would wind up involving you it. Manipulative on the verge of super crazy.

 

[Satanic_cap]

Chances are the husband would love to watch…if it was my wife I would

Wait what? Did you read it dude ....lmfao

 

[tonkatoy]

Being a bartender ppl naturally talk to you get to know you and have some laughs But then I came to work and she was there. The funny part is her husband was the Latin guy I said hi too before I walk in ...funny and yes she was strawberry blonde and was thick af ..like no b.s . Smash all day ..but I work here I'm not looking to kick off drama so I slow my roll...but I did alot of smiling lol

So she start coming in without her husband..and I'm still smiling but then she starts crying. this goes on for many incounters she talks about who horrible her husband is . Calling her racial slurs and using her and how he cheats and what's should she do? But when her and her husband come in together they always argue she calls me at work like right after she leaves

I'm confused and honestly missed any opportunities of hooking up with her. It's been a while since she came into the bar honestly I personally thinks she get a little too ******* too often ...i trying talking about kink and maybe a Qos lifestyle but plays like she such a good girl and faithful..idk she tried opening up about sex and told me she fingers herself but quickly turn into a cry fest about her husband and what his does.
So I'm asking did I play the friend zone all wrong ? Did I the whole thing go over my head? Or did I dodge a bullet? Was she toxic and full of drama? Was she a liar? Or a Qos but havnt realized it yet ?

This is one of those women that need A LOT of attention. Whether or not it's the kind of attention that getting into public fights with your husband or attention from a bartender that kind of has to talk to customers doesn't matter. Even if you could have hit it you simply would have been dragged into a sack full of crazy. You lucked out on this one.

 

[olena]

I think you dodged a bullet...Sounds like she wants to sleep with you but will tell her husband when they have their next fight when he uses racial slurs...and since he knows you know they are together he will come after you

 

[Renton3some]

Chances are the husband would love to watch…if it was my wife I would

Her husband would actually not like it

 

[bear it]

Dumpster Fire! Save yourself and away and do not look back.

 

[jehuty]

This is trouble from Sunday-Saturday. Yeah, that's a bait to involve you in some fight when she decides she wants to make her husband jealous.

 

[meetgeorgejets]

Just Enjoy It...Don't sweat the smal stuff.