Nobody becomes a boxer and doesn't want to be champion
of the world for a time!
My motto is "fuck her like I'm in love with her"!
I wouldn't say "push" more like "strategically satisfy" to the point to where the only thing that she has left to offer for loving so good is her heart and sacred vows!
That's why I always make it a personal point to establish right from the beginning with hubby's early on that I am not interested in ever taking what belongs to them just borrowing it and returning it happier than ever!
It has happened numerous times over the years and when any hotwife lost focus and said those words "I'm falling in love with you" I always told them "stop"! After being checked some immediately came back to their senses, regained focus and we continued having fun and other's said "we can't do this anymore" and we parted ways!
My answer is yes I enjoy having the skill and ability to take a woman there. I enjoy gaining a top place in their sexual history book. I enjoy being highly desired and addictive to her, but I do not enjoy any drama that may arise or emotional disruptions and that is never my intention.