Ladies into Black Men

[Bigfishneo]

Question:
In the midst of other white women are you as comfortable to check out black men in public, than you'd be by yourself? And why? I tend to wonder if a stigma is attached with it..

I work at an office in downtown Atlanta and take daily lunch break walks where I see groups of white women and always wonder...."Are they ashamed to check black men out in the midst of other women?" Some are bold in giving me a "kind smile ?" while others tend to be more shy.... Just thought I'd ask.

 

[Bigfishneo]

Is that so? Wish I was privy to those conversations for sure!

 

[Bigfishneo]

Code of silence!

Very well...I'll let my mind wander to the possibilities of the details

 

[Angie gallo]

Believe me, they were checking you out. You were probably the topic of conversation in the ladies room.

 

[BronwynTay]

When someone catches my eye, it's impossible to not have that instinctive reaction regardless of whether I'm alone or with friends.

 

[housewifenheat]

I am like @BronwynTay, when a Black man catches my eye I will check him out. I will check him out no matter who I am with.

 

[Raekwonthechef]

Just smile to them if they smile back your good but if they give you the “awkward white people smile” than stay clear

 

[Sunshine girl]

Hm. Well. Being ashamed would suggest that I thought my friends were racist and would judge me. I’m not friends with racists or anyone that would be rude to anyone, not could I be friends with anyone that would make me feel they’d judge me for being kind or friendly to anyone. If I smile, it’s sincere. If I don’t, it could be that I am just distracted. But if you catch my eye and smile, I will always smile back.