A couple things I hear most white ladies mention about black men is that they have a lot of
"confidence", and they know how to shoot the BS with a girl, which they LOVE. It sounds like you might doubt your abilities a bit.
There's this old joke that goes something like this:
A young, inexperienced fellow was at the beach one summer, and having a problem "scoring pussy". He noticed the friend he came to the beach with was getting new pussy every single night. So, out of frustration, he asked his friend what he was doing to get so much pussy.
His friend said, "its quite simple, actually. I just walk up to any woman I find the desire to have sex with, I introduce myself, tell her how beautiful and sexy she is, and then I ask her if she'd like to have SEX!"
The young fellow's eyes got wide, and he asked "Don't you get your face smacked?"
His friend said "oh yeah, but, I get a lot of pussy, too!"
Someone once asked Thomas Edison why he continued working on the light bulb, after all, he had failed over ten thousand times already.
Thomas Edison replied
"I've just discovered ten thousand ways it doesn't work, is all. I just need to find that one that will work."
Seriously, at least half the white chicks out there WILL talk to you for a
few minutes, and if you're a good BSer, that is all the time you usually need. Any good salesman will tell you that the "first 3 minutes of meeting someone" is where the sale is made or lost. That's how critical those first few minutes are.
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