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If they are having a happy romance life doing that then more power to them; whatever makes them happy. It's a shame they have to deal with shame and negativity and my heart goes out to them to a certain extent. At the same time, if you upload anything to very public porn sites like Pornhub, where they uploaded that, I don't know how wise it is to expect everyone to automatically admire and approve of your content. Regardless of what sexual niche you're in, be prepared for negative comments from unhappy people. These are adult venues on the Internet in 2024.