My wedding ring was a symbol that I was married, the collar had much more meaning. A collar meant that not only was I spoken for, but it was also a symbol that I was taken, I belonged to him, I was his, I was owned, I was his property. A collar reminded me of my place and my purpose as a submissive. The minute he put it on me, or I put it on it changed me, I immediately felt a change sweep over me, I became very submissive.At first I found it demeaning and a bit of a gimmick by the BBC. It looked hot on a video and my husband seemed to be turned on by it. Over time I realized the collar and leash helped me to understand my submission. It helped me to connect my sexual and emotional submission to my DOM.
Today, I am very comfortable with the collar and have begun to go out with it on. This weekend I wore it to a club with my DOM and while dancing he clipped the leash on to my collar and led me around by it for the rest of the night.
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I had different collars he had me wear for different occasions, some collars were more obvious than others. Training collars were thicker or heavier and had a d-ring so a leash could be attached. Other collars were imprinted with different titles, "Sub", "Slut", "Pet", etc. Some collars were as simple and as basic as a black ribbon choker.