BIG DICK=BIG APPETITE

Honestly, I don't hate my self. I havee a good job, great income, many friends. I am actually very fit as well. On the outside, I would be a catch. But I know also that I am a sexual loser. Thats ok. I just embrace that.
So in other words, you're living a lie.
It's important to acknowledge your strengths and achievements, but labeling yourself as a "sexual loser" is a harsh and limiting belief. Embrace your worth beyond superficial labels. Your value isn't determined by one aspect of your life. Focus on personal growth and genuine connections. You're more than enough.
And maybe you should start by spending less time here, and consuming less porn.
Porn destroys your brain (and your soul) in ways you can't even imagine.
 
Care to elaborate on your experiences/perceptions with the appetites of big dick men vs. small dick men?
Iā€™m not discriminating. Iā€™ve been with some guys that were average or so. And they were good because they brought the A game. Iā€™ve been with some guys with big dicks and they too were skilled so it was awesome. As to small dicks- they donā€™t do much for me and this whole cage and tiny dick thing that comes with self loathing and whiny Iā€™m so inadequate is really a huge turn off. If your dick is small up your game in other ways. Learn skills in manual manipulation or oral. Itā€™s not always about the dick.
 
That's really amazing man. It is obvious that the idea of having a useless and tiny dick that cannot satisfy women would be painful for you beyond belief. I don't have that same sexual pride that you have. I love that you said, though, that the idea of being like me is something you dont even wanna entertain. I know it is pathetic, and i know I AM a loser for it. But I really appreciate your honesty.
And what have you done to overcome this? Compensate?
 
Iā€™m not discriminating. Iā€™ve been with some guys that were average or so. And they were good because they brought the A game. Iā€™ve been with some guys with big dicks and they too were skilled so it was awesome. As to small dicks- they donā€™t do much for me and this whole cage and tiny dick thing that comes with self loathing and whiny Iā€™m so inadequate is really a huge turn off. If your dick is small up your game in other ways. Learn skills in manual manipulation or oral. Itā€™s not always about the dick.
Thanks for the reply Annie. However could you speak to the questions that I posed? Has it been your experience that men who are "well endowed" have a greater appetite for vaginal intercourse? Has it been your experience that the opposite is true? ie. smallish dick "let me just eat you" "would you please give me a blowjob" " I'd rather just jerk off" šŸ¤£.
Depending on dudes appetite for fucking pussy...How much of it do you think is physical (this big dick needs to be used...a lot. Or what good is this small dick) and or mental (confident because of or insecure because of)?
What part does race play in your observation? I know what I think as a man... It's always great to get a female's perspective šŸ˜‰.
 
I am 5 inches and I have no interest in vaginal sex. I have not fucked my wife in about 30 years. She had no interest and she once commented that I was basically using her vagina to masturbate myself. We then transitioned to oral which was better for her. I have now been completely replaced and in essence am being cuckolded by her bullet vibe. We call him buzz. She REALLY enjoys her buzz time. I am still hopeful that she will some day find an interest in having sex with other men. She has always found black men VERY attractive and it would be great if she would one day soon take action on that.
 
I guess maybe it depends on the woman you are with ?
Kind of want to know from a woman's perspective if it's been their experience that "well hung" men want to beat their pussies up more than guys who are less endowed. My woman has a huge appetite for my dick in her pussy. Although she doesn't have as much sexual experience as I... Size has always been a factor for her. If a guy was "small" he couldn't get none... Interestingly enough those guys just wanted to eat her... So that speaks to my original questions. To get into her pussy with a dick she always wanted it to be "Big"
 
I am 5 inches and I have no interest in vaginal sex. I have not fucked my wife in about 30 years. She had no interest and she once commented that I was basically using her vagina to masturbate myself. We then transitioned to oral which was better for her. I have now been completely replaced and in essence am being cuckolded by her bullet vibe. We call him buzz. She REALLY enjoys her buzz time. I am still hopeful that she will some day find an interest in having sex with other men. She has always found black men VERY attractive and it would be great if she would one day soon take action on that.
Thanks for your very honest reply. It is much appreciated... All the best to the both of you šŸ‘šŸ½šŸ˜‰šŸ‘ŒšŸ½.
 
Itā€™s better to try to eat pussy rather than risk disappointing her with a small dick.
I get it... The physical effects the mental the mental effects the physical. From your perspective as a man. Personally I love eating pussy...Not because I feel that I will not be able to satisfy with my dick... I just always loved it. And most women love it too. So that works out just fine šŸ˜‰.
 
Thanks for the reply Annie. However could you speak to the questions that I posed? Has it been your experience that men who are "well endowed" have a greater appetite for vaginal intercourse? Has it been your experience that the opposite is true? ie. smallish dick "let me just eat you" "would you please give me a blowjob" " I'd rather just jerk off" šŸ¤£.
Depending on dudes appetite for fucking pussy...How much of it do you think is physical (this big dick needs to be used...a lot. Or what good is this small dick) and or mental (confident because of or insecure because of)?
What part does race play in your observation? I know what I think as a man... It's always great to get a female's perspective šŸ˜‰.
Both average and big wanted to have vaginal sex and I loved it. The average guys were maybe more attentive to foreplay that the big cock guys. They tend to want it sucked then go right tit which is fine if Iā€™m in the mood and ready to rumble. So there isnā€™t much difference. If your wanting to fuck your dick size doesnā€™t really make much difference. Iā€™ve had a couple of big cocks that did last all night. Multiple orgasms on thier part that want such the case with others but thatā€™s not dick thatā€™s the guy Iā€™d say. Race doesnā€™t play much into it other than I find black men very attractive- hence my fetish for the LS. My husband is well endowed and we have hour long play sessions if not more and heā€™s great with fingers and tongues and cock. So race isnā€™t super determining. When I play I tend to play with men of color by choice because thatā€™s my fetish.
 
Both average and big wanted to have vaginal sex and I loved it. The average guys were maybe more attentive to foreplay that the big cock guys. They tend to want it sucked then go right tit which is fine if Iā€™m in the mood and ready to rumble. So there isnā€™t much difference. If your wanting to fuck your dick size doesnā€™t really make much difference. Iā€™ve had a couple of big cocks that did last all night. Multiple orgasms on thier part that want such the case with others but thatā€™s not dick thatā€™s the guy Iā€™d say. Race doesnā€™t play much into it other than I find black men very attractive- hence my fetish for the LS. My husband is well endowed and we have hour long play sessions if not more and heā€™s great with fingers and tongues and cock. So race isnā€™t super determining. When I play I tend to play with men of color by choice because thatā€™s my fetish.
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Both average and big wanted to have vaginal sex and I loved it. The average guys were maybe more attentive to foreplay that the big cock guys. They tend to want it sucked then go right tit which is fine if Iā€™m in the mood and ready to rumble. So there isnā€™t much difference. If your wanting to fuck your dick size doesnā€™t really make much difference. Iā€™ve had a couple of big cocks that did last all night. Multiple orgasms on thier part that want such the case with others but thatā€™s not dick thatā€™s the guy Iā€™d say. Race doesnā€™t play much into it other than I find black men very attractive- hence my fetish for the LS. My husband is well endowed and we have hour long play sessions if not more and heā€™s great with fingers and tongues and cock. So race isnā€™t super determining. When I play I tend to play with men of color by choice because thatā€™s my fetish.
Great answer from a woman's point of view. Be great to hear what other "Real women" have observed and experienced šŸ˜‰šŸ‘šŸ½šŸ‘šŸ½.
 
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