Cedar Waters is closed to new members or day passes this year.
Caliente is probably what you are looking for, with one really significant caveat. Since you are on this site, I assume you are looing for black guys. And the crowd at Caliente when we went was lily white. There were a few Asian women, and a couple of Indian guys. But I only saw a single, solitary black man.
Oh wait, I see that you are yourself a black man. In that case, absolutely go to Caliente, you will be very, very, very much in demand.