Viral lol … you are not going to be on the front page of the local news paper, no worries, trust me I never had any issues before with any sites, this one is a little different.be patient it will all work out.
Viral lol … you are not going to be on the front page of the local news paper, no worries, trust me I never had any issues before with any sites, this one is a little different.be patient it will all work out.
TestI hope everyone here is doing well! We have implemented a new video policy for the verification forum which I will link below.
👉 *** (READ ME 1ST) How to Become Verified as a Real Person *** 👈
⚠️ Important note: The rules and requirements for verifying were changed on 05.08.2022, video is now required for verification. Please read the requirements and possible exceptions carefully. What is Verification? We want your experience on our website to be enjoyable, so we offer a free...www.blacktowhite.net
Becoming verified is an important step here for those actually looking to connect with others. There is no charge, it only takes a few minutes, and you do not have to reveal your personal identity.
Thanks to you all!
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Just like automobiles and safety issues ... some cars only have a lap belt, even older cars have no seat belts at all, however new cars have the latest requirements regarding seat belts. Why is that? Is it fair to new cars to have more strengent requirements regarding safety? Sure, it is.Grandfathered in lol wow … you know what means not all verified members are verified the same. Great
This was a very good decision. It will definitely help to reduce the proportion of fakes that manage to get verified.I hope everyone here is doing well! We have implemented a new video policy for the verification forum which I will link below.
👉 *** (READ ME 1ST) How to Become Verified as a Real Person *** 👈
⚠️ Important note: The rules and requirements for verifying were changed on 05.08.2022, video is now required for verification. Please read the requirements and possible exceptions carefully. What is Verification? We want your experience on our website to be enjoyable, so we offer a free...www.blacktowhite.net
Becoming verified is an important step here for those actually looking to connect with others. There is no charge, it only takes a few minutes, and you do not have to reveal your personal identity.
Thanks to you all!
TMP![]()
I assumed most everyone had a reasonable understanding of this principle - that’s what I get for assuming.Just like automobiles and safety issues ... some cars only have a lap belt, even older cars have no seat belts at all, however new cars have the latest requirements regarding seat belts. Why is that? Is it fair to new cars to have more strengent requirements regarding safety? Sure, it is.
That's "grandfathering old requirements" otherwise it's doubtful ANY safety regulations would advance to the latest requirements.
If those with the old requirements leave, then come back a couple years later, they'll have to reapply under the latest requirements which will be stricter than what you have. It's a sign of "PROGRESS".... assuring you of the latest methods of verifying who you are talking with which is what you want if you're trying to hook up, right?
Or, don't get verified, like ME, as I'm not trying to hook up with anyone at all and I've been here since 2010.
Have Fun ...
Thanks for the suggestion but we are not a dating or match-making site. Our verification process is simple and intended to show others you are real. True verification can only be done on a person to person basis and being grandfathered in is the only way to do this here on the site. Re-verifying tens of thousands of members is nearly impossible and unnecessary for the site’s intended purpose.Regarding the questions about "re-verification" and the clarification that "prior to the video clip requirement" existing "Real Person" verified accounts will not require re-verification to the new video clip standard; my opinion is that it likely would be beneficial for a periodic requirement to re-verify "Real Person" accounts especially if the original verification were the old standard.
I have to agree. I only reverified because I wanted to.Thanks for the suggestion but we are not a dating or match-making site. Our verification process is simple and intended to show others you are real. True verification can only be done on a person to person basis and being grandfathered in is the only way to do this. Re-verifying tens of thousands of members is nearly impossible and unnecessary for the site’s intended purpose.
Wow, that blew upI never said any such thing. You are assuming yet again. No / it’s not a big deal, but your post certainly made it sound like it was, so I made sure the whole story was told.
Thanks for the suggestion but we are not a dating or match-making site. Our verification process is simple and intended to show others you are real. True verification can only be done on a person to person basis and being grandfathered in is the only way to do this here on the site. Re-verifying tens of thousands of members is nearly impossible and unnecessary for the site’s intended purpose.
People will always want to meet when sex is involved. That tab would be better labeled “location search” or something similar. The entire site, platform and software is not set up at all to be a dating site nor would we want it to be. Staff discussed older verifications when I implemented the new rule and we will not re-verify old verifications.1) There is a link at the top of the site specifically called "Dating"
I find it is easy to verify on kik individually. Even with verified membersI understand the issue of level of effort, and the decision to grandfather already verified members is certainly the prerogative of the site, but I'd offer two observations with regard to the site's intended purpose and whether it is at least in-part a "dating" site:
1) There is a link at the top of the site specifically called "Dating"
2) And while the intended purpose of the site may not originally have been for "dating" or "match-making", one of the seemingly recurring primary drivers for members caring if others are "real" is because they want to know if they are available to actually meet, noting the number of threads related to that topic.
Neither of these observations may change the site's perspective of whether to re-verify using the new standard versus grandfathering existing verified members, and that's fine.
But I would argue that even if it was not originally intended, the site has never-the-less evolved into a "dating" site to some degree. So any way to improve the confidence of being "real" for the total population of the site is beneficial, and no doubt the new standard going forward will contribute to that.
Worst case, anyone interested in determining if someone is "more real" than another could look a their verification post to see if they provided the new video standard or not, and also make some judgements based upon that member's other contributions such as posts and media.
Thanks for implementing the new video standard![]()
I just think a trophy when you meet someone in person will be better fit because you can be real but really you here to waste others timeI understand the issue of level of effort, and the decision to grandfather already verified members is certainly the prerogative of the site, but I'd offer two observations with regard to the site's intended purpose and whether it is at least in-part a "dating" site:
1) There is a link at the top of the site specifically called "Dating"
2) And while the intended purpose of the site may not originally have been for "dating" or "match-making", one of the seemingly recurring primary drivers for members caring if others are "real" is because they want to know if they are available to actually meet, noting the number of threads related to that topic.
Neither of these observations may change the site's perspective of whether to re-verify using the new standard versus grandfathering existing verified members, and that's fine.
But I would argue that even if it was not originally intended, the site has never-the-less evolved into a "dating" site to some degree. So any way to improve the confidence of being "real" for the total population of the site is beneficial, and no doubt the new standard going forward will contribute to that.
Worst case, anyone interested in determining if someone is "more real" than another could look a their verification post to see if they provided the new video standard or not, and also make some judgements based upon that member's other contributions such as posts and media.
Thanks for implementing the new video standard![]()
I just think a trophy when you meet someone in person will be better fit because you can be real but really you here to waste others time
We can do it just like a video with signs for additional proof plus you get people from the site and not just random videos of anyone to verifyThat's an option, or like some sites have an option for "testimonials" from other members, although that has its problems too where they can be faked also.
Maybe. I know people that don’t use certifications on SLS because they don’t like kissing and tellingI just think a trophy when you meet someone in person will be better fit because you can be real but really you here to waste others time
True but there be testimony anonymous box but must be verify people but the sign is extra proofMaybe. I know people that don’t use certifications on SLS because they don’t like kissing and telling
so that means i can stay or should i leave? Because i am a real person but i dont have nudes i need someone to tell me if i should stay or leave i wanna know.We should all also know that just because someone won’t meet or reply back, or even send you nudes doesn’t mean they are not real.
No one is making you send anything or verify. Verified members have better results if trying to meet others.so that means i can stay or should i leave? Because i am a real person but i dont have nudes i need someone to tell me if i should stay or leave i wanna know.