Since you are here on this site, I'm assuming you are interested only in having sex with a black man and I can only hope that you eventually go through with it. My only recommendation is that you are selective and make sure the black guy you meet will respect your rules in advance.. Good luck to you in finding what you are looking for. Once your first time is behind you, and you found Mister Right, I'm sure you will enjoy it where you will want to do it more and more. But be careful, having sex with a black men is very addictive.. take it from someone who knows.. lol